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Need help with a woman.

Ok so she is 24, im 19. She has a kid from a previous relationship…she goes to bars some times..not an extreme amount of the time but she does go. I asked her to the movies..she told me she would when she had time. so ive noticed that when im with her if i talk to her i look her in the eyes…and she looks away first most of the time. She has an ex who is crzy bout her apparently…txting her calling her and **** all the time. we went out for lunch and he knew about it apparently and txted her she said. and called her 4 times lol.. Ugh one thing that weirded me out tho… was she had wanted me to go to lunch with her, i couldnt go tho then she said she was going with her friend. Well a few days went by..i txted her and then she was like WHAT ARE YOU DOIN?! told her i was runnin up to the school to do somethin, she said want to have lunch? then she said that her friend was supposed to go but couldnt make it cuz she was called in. Then we get to the place and she changed the story and said her friend was at a doctors appointment then she was like so…. she is going to stop by is that ok?? i ofc said yes..it would of been rude for me to say no because i guess she was supposed to have lunch with her in the first place…but ugh i felt like she was sizing me up her friend…im not really sure tho. i was kinda shy tho..which i am normally around people when i first get to know them. so i didnt really talk much about my self. (dont trust people that much, especially girls) i think she has trust isssues too…with her bad relationships etc. i would too. I am really confused tho..she has started getting more distant with me, i invited her to a Halloween party and she at first said she would see what was up…then she said she wuoldnt know till that day…which yeah was gay she was basically leaving me hanging. so i just happened to talk bout it then she was like well normally i go out with my friends on halloween every year, and i alrdy made plans with them so.
thats cool w/e. ive txted her a few times and she doesnt txt me back… um the other night i was walking from class with her and after she was bout to leave she gave me a hug and said to txt her later, then she said it again reiterating what she had said… so i asssumed she wanted to talk to me. i txted her and she didnt txt back, thought maybe she was busy or w/e so txted again 20 mins later, the same msg. She didnt reply again i txted her the next day and she still didnt reply. I dont know what to do..

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