friends help: so who used to be my best friend it driving me crazy! - Help.com

Just ride it out anon. I’m sure eventually you will find a friend you really connect with. If you try to force a friend down your own throat it will end up being someone you don’t like.

thepursuitofknowledg wrote:
Just ride it out anon. I’m sure eventually you will find a friend you really connect with. If you try to force a friend down your own throat it will end up being someone you don’t like.

exactly. besides a true, good friend is rare. you cannot just pick one up anywhere. stick with the friends youve got and eventually youll find someone you click with. and dont envy the others, must likely the people you see with “best friends” are fake and untrue anyway.

I’ve been in this situatuion thrugh falling out with a friend everyone else loved, they didn’t say they were on her side but blates were. You really do just have to sit it out. They give up, get bored,move on. You’ll find that friend who gets you and you’ll be ok. Don’t think about how sad you are or lonly. Just concrentrate on something else and before you know it, it’s fixed itself. With this friend, ignore her, treat her how she treats you see how she likes it back.

Okay, I’ve said this before: “Friends,” are “Fiends” with an “R”. Choose your Fiends wisely. You can’t enjoy your own glory if your busy being jealous of hers. You may be a friend to her but she isn’t reciprocating. Time will tell if she does. And if she dosen’t. . .well. . .you know. Move on. In the meantime, be her friend and let her know that you’re glad so many people like her. Just don’t forget to remind her who you are when no one liked her at all. . .
Hope this helps - good luck

no one has a “perfect” friend. i mean sure, for a while it may seem like one friend is the perfect friend and nothing can change your friendship, but after a while you will see their faults. a true friend learns to deal with faults. but this must go both ways. you AND your friend must learn to look past minor problems, but if the big problems still exist, as you have shown here, there is not much you can do about it. Talk to her first off. but dont be surprised if she doesnt care. people are heartless sometimes. make new friends, you may find that you were missing out on a great best friend by waiting for your old friend to be like she used to be. hope that helps!!!