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my mom. she’s emotionally abusive. everything has to be about her and her feelings and since her boyfriend broke up with her 2days ago if i need to ask her something about anything: bank statements, picking up my car, health insurance, ANYTHING. and i’m serious, i do mean anything. she starts crying about how she doesn’t know she has too much on her plate and blah blah blah. I understand being upset about a breakup. But they dated for 5 months. Already broke up once. And for the past month she’s been complaining nonstop and considering breaking up with HIS lousy detached depressed selfish drunk ***. Just because something isn’t about her, she goes off in a tizzy because the attention isn’t focused on her. I swear, it’s like I have to be the parent and she’s 13.

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my mom is awful. she’s emotionally abusive. everything has to be about her and her feelings and since her boyfriend broke up with her 2days ago if i need to ask her something about anything: bank statements, picking up my car, health insurance, ANYTHING. and i’m serious, i do mean anything. she starts crying about how she doesn’t know she has too much on her plate and blah blah blah. I understand being upset about a breakup. But they dated for 5 months. Already broke up once. And for the past month she’s been complaining nonstop and considering breaking up with HIS lousy detached depressed selfish drunk ***. Just because something isn’t about her, she goes off in a tizzy because the attention isn’t focused on her. I swear, it’s like I have to be the parent and she’s 13.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (51 minutes after post)

your heart is something that will run you crazy.i went with my husband for 5 months and married him.was the best thing in my life. she will get over it.usually you let your feeling out on who ever is the closest to you .wrong but it happens.give her time.takes time to hill a heart.be strong.she will changed

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An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (55 minutes after post)

Mum knows best… and they way you treat her reflects how you will treat people like her whom you will encounter in life. Possibly your wife or husband…

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1 month ago (2 hours, 49 minutes after post)

oh so you mean i’m going to roll over and be a door mat?

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