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I can’t live my life anymore, nobody likes me.

Nobody even cares about me. I have no friends because no one will even give me a chance, its all because of my looks. I know that I’m fat, everyone already tells me. All the boys at school tease me, while the girls make fun of my weight behind my back. They call me truffles because this stupid kid named Lane thinks I should do the truffle shuffle like the guy off of goonies. I just don’t think they even realize how much it hurts my feelings when they make fun of me. They don’t know what it feels like to eat lunch every day by yourself and have to watch everyone with their friends laugh and have fun, but you can’t because no body even wants to talk to you. I have never had a boyfriend let a lone a friend that actually wanted to hang out with me. I’m really not a werido or a bad person, but they will never know that because they never give me a chance. I don’t even want to live anymore because no one even cares.

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rl.ange offline Verified User (1 month) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (9 minutes after post)

Sounds like you need to find your anchor.

The best strategy for now is to identify something you enjoy, and feel like you do well.

Start from there and build up some self-esteme and positive internal energy through the experience to carry you through that school day.

I’m quite a bit old, but I work with a lady who is in a very high position who is larger than most of us by design.

She’s very respected and well liked in our company, and it has to do with the way she feels about and carries herself.

You might already have that going for you, but if not sure…people are attracted to positive energy. Doesn’t matter the shape or size…and I think you have that potential.

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ray48teres offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (10 minutes after post)

their is always someone in life who makes fun of people.you have to get out their and fit in.quit feeling sorry for yourself.love and believe in yourself and others will.just keep trying. friends listen if they don’t their not true friends.get out their you can do it.good luck

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Dragon_Lady offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month ago (10 minutes after post)

I’m sorry you’re going through that. But I assure you that after you’re finished with school people won’t treat you that way anymore.

In the meantime, have you talked to your parents about this? If you’re seriously overweight seeing a doctor might be a good idea; and maybe some counselling to help learn to deal with the other issues.

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turboanythin offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (28 minutes after post)

look at yourself in the mirror, discover what your good traits are and make a list of your qualities. Then look at yourself and find the traits that are unwanted and make a list. Compare the two. You will never find more on the unwanted list and thats a fact. People are immature and usually dont realize the pain that they cause to people. Honestly, I went through highschool with a bigger burden on my back than most could handle and through persistant trudging ahead ive made a happy life for myself. if your still a sophmore or younger this is just a part of life, take it and use it to push yourself harder in academics or other fields of interest to raise your quality of life.

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mayukan offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

There must be someone in your life who cares.
It seems you are paying attention at those who are ignoring you. Maybe there are other people who feel the same way you do and you have not even noticed them. It is very easy to feel sorry for ourselves and feel isolated and school is a very big part of our lives so it becomes an issue. But you can find places outside of school like volunteering or clubs where other people share your same interest. Appreciate the small things in life that make it beautiful.
I truly wish you well.

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BIG AL 1 offline Verified User (1 month, 1 week) Shouts: 427 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (20 hours, 21 minutes after post)

To have friends, you must show yourself friendly. Do something nice for the people who are making fun of you. Don’t show off when you do. If the only problem that you have is that you’re a big girl then you are doing okay. The other kids are the stupid ones - help them with their homework. Bring in a big box of chocolate brownies and share them. Especially invite the meanist girl over to have a slumber party at your place. Compliment your teacher.
A boyfriend? Okay, find a boy that eats lunch by himself - ask if he wants to trade lunches and make sure that your mom made him something real good the night before. . . Drop some books in front of him - oopsydaisy! Always smile, no matter what.
You get the idea.
All My Best

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3 weeks, 2 days ago (1 week after post)

You to make sure you show the bullies how much it hurts you, but be warned, this might make them worse. After you’ve determined whether they have hearts or not, ignore them.

They’ll soon get bored…I was bullied…for being clever…it sucks…I know but i ignored my bullies, got help off teachers, now…well…i’m not popular but i have a group of good friends and one extra special friend.

Just show them you’re not to be messed with and that you’re not weak and easily pushed aside. :)

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williamgibsone offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 2 days ago (1 week after post)

If no body likes you please write me at i> small>(email removed) /small> /i> the person could be me who may like you. William

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upsiiedaiis offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

none of my friends at school are talking to me because one of my ‘friends’ told them that i said i hated all of them and now they’ve been bulling me ever since.
Its been going on for a year or more
i told the teacher but he made them hate me even more and now they think im a snitch
a 2 faced&back stabber
and its all because of one lie
what should i do???
i dont eat or sleep
i dont drink or smile
i dont even have any one else to talk to: no one walks with me or asks me if im okay they just laugh at me when im crying to the teacher in the room. what should i do???

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ray48teres offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

god walks with you.you are never alone.if they feel that way they are not your friends to begin with.have faith get out their and stand for yourself.you have to care about yourself before others can.i will pray for you

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MarmaladeFreak offline Verified User (1 month, 1 week) Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks ago (2 weeks, 1 day after post)

You can make friends if you just don’t bother about what others think and just be happy for who you are. First off don’t think about how the others have ‘friends’. You never know how strong or real their friendships really are. Just be glad for them but don’t think that you are alone because there are heaps of other people who still feel misunderstood in some friendship circles and so You don’t have to compare yourself to no one. You can stand on your own two feet come on now :) … Tip: When you smile it makes people wander what you so happy about … Be Yourself and the poeple who will accept you as you are (flaws and all), are your TRUE FRIENDS!

Hope you find them sooner than later! 3

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ray48teres offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks ago (2 weeks, 2 days after post)

couldn’t have said it better

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