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I’d say make the call, just make sure you don’t get physical right off the bat.

Go for it. It’s worst to never do something and then wonder what would have happen then to actually do it and find the results to not be what you wanted.

I’d take getting rejected over wondering what would of happened anyday. ANY besides, it’s not a sure thing you’d get rejected :)

hmmmmm :):) ok i sent a txt arggghhhhhh!!!!!! *bite nails* will send update :) thanks guys i needed the push and your right better to know :) wonder what he’s thinking :(

Prolly the same things you are… at least that’s the case most of the time.

lol yea confusion !! no reply yet :(

Wait for a bit.

OH and make sure it sent :p

If anything you can “accidentally” send the same text twice just to be safe.

But yeah, just wait for a while longer.

rejected :( he has a puncture and his mate just arrived

Sorry bout that but atleast you now know :(

Who knows. Maybe something might change later.

You should definitely try - you never know what might happen, and surely it is better to know even if the answer is negative rather han regret not answering…

Try it. The fear of rejection is a good one to conquer through trial and error anyway.

Anonymous wrote:
rejected :( he has a puncture and his mate just arrived

I’m very sorr to hear that Anon… maybe he is truly indisposed at the moment?

You’ve made the first move, I’d suggest putting it behind you. If he makes contact back, then it will be your turn to make a decision.

The relationship didn’t work the first time round so why do you think going back to him would work now? You weren’t rejected as such…. but it is time to move on.

Anonymous wrote:
The relationship didn’t work the first time round so why do you think going back to him would work now? You weren’t rejected as such…. but it is time to move on.

That’s not always true. Me and my current girlfriend broke up along time ago. Got together again and now we’ve been together for 2+ years. Just because it didn’t work the first time doesn’t mean it won’t next time if the chance is given.

I think that all hope isn’t lost after the first breakup. If taken the right way by both parties I think it can even strengthen the final relationship. Once there have been 2-3 breakups however, that’s when I would go so far as to say that it’s hopeless. All trust is lost at that point.