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You are probably unconciously projecting your nerves about college onto this girl or your love life in general.

i know I’m in love with someone I’ve not met also and i just got rejected by the guy i like.

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i know I’m in love with someone I’ve not met also and i just got rejected by the guy i like.

The first could be you trying to create a “perfect lover” since you cannot find one in your own life. As for the second, its bound to happen you just have to get back on the horse.

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i know I’m in love with someone I’ve not met also and i just got rejected by the guy i like.

idk, I’m starting to get confused by it. I just want to be happy, but all i seem to do is get worse. I just want someone to talk to sometimes just to make me happy, but I’m so shy in school it seems my only life is on the computer. I don’t want to live a fantasy.

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idk, I’m starting to get confused by it. I just want to be happy, but all i seem to do is get worse. I just want someone to talk to sometimes just to make me happy, but I’m so shy in school it seems my only life is on the computer. I don’t want to live a fantasy.

I’ve felt that way too. Don’t worry though, eventually you will get over your love life and fall into a group of friends. I did.

best advice in the book is to not rush into things. take it slow. if you happen to find a relationship online … there’s nothing wrong with that. just make sure you two are on the same page about things. build onto what you both feel you have, together. don’t get into something just because you miss the feelings you once had. make sure you’re moving on to something because YOU truly want to.

but what if i am moving into something i don’t want to?

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but what if i am moving into something i don’t want to?

Again, don’t force a relationship. They will come to you eventually, trying to force one will just cause you more pain. Sometimes, being alone is the best thing for you.

then don’t. trust yourself. if you truly don’t want to go along with something then don’t take that route unless you’re 100% sure about the move you’re making. you have other things to focus on especially since you’re in college.

pounce when you’re ready to. you have all the time in the world. :)

but I’m tired of being alone. i just want to be happy.

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but I’m tired of being alone. i just want to be happy.

Give it time. Try getting a pet and reading a good book. The pet will make you feel loved and a good book will make you feel you are not alone.

i have a pet, but my dog is at my dads house. my parents are divorced, so i hardly see him. my dad gave me books i still need to read, but I’m tired of living a fantasy.

One thing that cheers me up is getting rid of my inhibitions and going to walmart. Just go in and do something completely random (such as falling asleep in one of their display chairs or playing the video games in the electronics aisle for an hour.) It may not help with your loneliness but you will feel much happier.

i cant just go out, i cant drive, and i have parents who watch me like a hawk. lol i hate going places b/c of it. they always want to know what I’m doing and why.

yeah, just focus on other things. you don’t need someone else to feel happy. appreciate the little things you have now. and work back up to putting yourself back on the market, cus right now it sounds like you need a little more time. you don’t want to rush things, trust me. :)

take it one step at a time and everything will all work out for you.

i am focusing on other things like my education, but I’m failing my trig class and I’m trying to get help with it, but ppl dont believe i can pass, and i just need someone to believe i can do it.

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i am focusing on other things like my education, but I’m failing my trig class and I’m trying to get help with it, but ppl dont believe i can pass, and i just need someone to believe i can do it.

Trig is tough try http://www.analyzemath.com/Trigonomet… for extra help. The advantage of having overprotective parents is they may be willing to take you in to school early or late to get help. I know you can do it. You have a supercomputer between your ears.