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?At this moment n time i feel like im losing myself and everyone around me, especially my friends. I had two best friends the ones that knew everthing about me and i knew about them, we were so close. I was a different course last year and made friends with a new girl and we got on great. Then this new girl got on really well wit my other two best friends, she even ended up living with them this year and i didnt. I just feel so hurt that they asked her to live with them and they didnt ask me.I feel like iv lost my place in the group and that she has taken over it. There always stuck together now all the time, they have this little click going on between them and they dont call into me or ring me half as much. I ended up eating the heads of the three of them with drink on me the last night and now there not talking to me. I know i must of hurt them by what i said but i didnt mean to hurt them. All i want is my friends back. I need some advise, please help!! x x

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Hi. At this moment n time i feel like im losing myself and everyone around me, especially my friends. I had two best friends the ones that knew everthing about me and i knew about them, we were so close. I was a different course last year and made friends with a new girl and we got on great. Then this new girl got on really well wit my other two best friends, she even ended up living with them this year and i didnt. I just feel so hurt that they asked her to live with them and they didnt ask me.I feel like iv lost my place in the group and that she has taken over it. There always stuck together now all the time, they have this little click going on between them and they dont call into me or ring me half as much. I ended up eating the heads of the three of them with drink on me the last night and now there not talking to me. I know i must of hurt them by what i said but i didnt mean to hurt them. All i want is my friends back. I need some advise, please help!! x x

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks, 6 days ago (23 minutes after post)

I’d say sorry and tell your old friend’s that you feel bad because you feel left out. Do you think you may be abit jealous of this person? try not to let yourself feel bad.I’ve felt like that before. but its something you have to learn, that people can have other friends, it doesnt mean that they don’t like you anymore. you just have to stick in there as well. I’d apologise and hang with them, try and talk to the new lass and be friends. the more the merrier if you can all get along.

If you apoligise and they are being funny about it or nasty to you about it, then I would find new friends.

But you just have to give it a try. apologise first

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3 weeks, 6 days ago (29 minutes after post)

Oh ya i will admit that i prob am jealous, its a bit hard not to be. I suppose i it was always just the three of us and thats all i was used of and then suddenly things just changed. Im not too found of change to tell you the truth. I did appologise and told them how sorry i was but i know it will be a long time b4 things will be right between us again.

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