relationship help: How do you know when a relationship is over? - Help.com

you just know

Usually one party involved states it to the other.

thepursuitofknowledg wrote:
Usually one party involved states it to the other.

That’s right, and if no has, it’s also when you start asking if it’s over yet.

When you come home one day and you find your significant other naked with somebody else and they try to cover it up saying they were playing doctor.

That’s usually a huge hint, even if you cannot verify that they were actually playing doctor.

when you start to question if its over

When no matter what you do, your partner in question doesn’t appreciate it, doesn’t comment on it, when there is no spark anymore in the relationship just toleration or not even that, when the other irritates you and you really don’t want to see him/her. When you hang out with your friends more often and avoid making any plans with your partner. When he/she puts you on hold and procrastinates on going out with you anywhere, etc. etc.

Before i left my ex i was distant , i notice she was avoiding me and we fight more
and no matter how much we tried working on things we would just end up in the same spot.
Umm.. also when the other person stops trying and seems numb. thats what i felt i got tired of the fighting.
When you have to question your partner’s trust & love.

wood_samanthalydi wrote:
omg, my partner is out on the town right now, we have a little girl and she is sleeping at my mums, I just want to feel loved! I feel lonely and he told me the other day that he feels numb, me to, I think I deserve better but feel to weak to leave. Never thought I’d be a single Mum, the idea infuriates me :(

numbness could mean other things too , he might be upset about something , best to talk about these things with your partner then to assume its over.

Thanks for all the replies. I don’t think it’s over. I still try my hardest to make it all work, but he doesn’t give us his 100%. It scares me because I love him too much to let go. I’m not sure I can fix anything else. I have been doing all I can. He has been trying a little more lately than before, so for now I have some hope left.