i did something horrible ( i cheated) and i apoligized to my ex. - Help.com

i did something horrible ( i cheated) and i apoligized to my ex.

its almost been a week since, and she came over today to pick her stuff up from my house. she’s disgusted by me. i explained to her my blame, and apoligized to her..

now what do i do?

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Abba Zabba offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (3 minutes after post)

Move on.

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4 weeks, 1 day ago (5 minutes after post)

not cheat next time

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mz.mo offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (16 minutes after post)

Sprite wrote:
Move on.

Anonymous wrote:
not cheat next time

both sound advice. And for her sake leave her be …. she needs to be able to move on. So if you care about her then you need to leave her alone. If she contacts you then speak to her.

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An Unknown Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (16 minutes after post)

You need to find out why you did it. You probably claim cheating is wrong, well then why did you do it? You must have thought it was the right thing to do at the time. And maybe it was for you but the problem is not what you did, it is what you DIDN’T do. If you were that unsatisfied in your relationship, you should have ended it beforehand or at voiced your dissatisfaction first.

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