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I am in high school, and i think im in love with one of my friend ive known since 6th grade.

I have always thought that she was the most beautiful woman i have ever seen, and i now i wish to take action on my feelings. She tends to ignore my texts.she told me the time i asked her about what she thought about a message i sent her, then she laughed. She is one of those girls that knows she is pretty, so she teases many boys including me. The day i was going to ask her out, she got back together with her old boyfriend. She lays on his lap and kisses him in front of me and things that really bother me. Her boyfriend is a really nice guy and one of my best friends, and im not letting her get in between that. I must say i do envy him. What Should I DO?!?!?!? And Please Give Better Advice Than Get Over It.

By the Way, my names is Chris and I live in Florida, so yeah, anybody gotz any advice, i would love to hear it

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Commander Ikari online Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 129 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks, 6 days ago (17 minutes after post)

You are in her friendzone.

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3 weeks, 6 days ago (22 minutes after post)

i think i annoy her because i engage her in conversation weneve i see her nd she rally doesnt wanna talk

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missencor offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 6 days ago (46 minutes after post)

well, hun, don’t show that you are that interested. Girls don’t like it when boys try and I mean try really hard (clingy). Be a friend for now and not always there to engage her in conversation and have a life outside of her. Other than that, sorry love, but you are probably in the friend zone. Been there; done there. Good luck Chris!

BTW im in florida too…humidity is from satan

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ImaginaMagic offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 6 days ago (52 minutes after post)

I agree with missencor, It’s a good Idea to step back and stand by. if they’ve broken up once before, they’re more than likely to break up again.

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lunastar44 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 6 days ago (3 hours, 47 minutes after post)

dude. im going through the same thing. except the guy i like is very close to me but pretty much the same. We should just look like we can still have fun with other people like the others said. Have a life besides her. Go out and come back with tales about cute girls. Treat her like she treats you. Friend Zone sucks:P

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Anonymous #
3 weeks, 6 days ago (12 hours, 8 minutes after post)

That Sux, She is the Only One i have ever wanted, I have had other girlfriends, but she is the only one who thinks the same way i do, and does everything the same way i do

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3 weeks, 6 days ago (12 hours, 11 minutes after post)

also, the reason they broke up was because of her flirting with other guys, but know he knows she doesnt mean it, and they are likely not to break up again for a while, everytime i see that image of her kissing him, i really feel like a loser and i really envy him

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