Dont pressure them give them a little room and if you have to apoligize just do it if you truly feel that theres no one else give it all you got to fix it cuzz what you have is truly precious, good luck =)
yeah i wish it waa that easy to fix.
sure i got only time im here to help =)
i met a guy freshman year of high school. i didnt stay at the high school. i left at semester. after that is when me and (fake name) bob starting talking. he had a girlfriend, but i liked him.
(1) did he also feelings for you?
(2) did he know you had feelings for him?
so then we started flirting. and it got pretty intense. but he still had a girlfriend. so it was wrong. then i got in trouble so i got my texting taken off. but once i got it back, i texted him saying hey i got my phone back and he said hey baby i missed talking to you, so i naturally excited that he called me baby, so i told my best friend. ( no body new about me and bobs flirting) so she decided if me and bob didnt stop she would tell the girlfriend. and we had to stop. but we were still cool (me and bob) but i still liked him.
so after awhile, i told him i liked him, (him and his girlfriend were over) but he said he didnt like me. kk. so then arounf juneee…21st we went to a party and saw each other there. we acted like close friends. but i was just liking him more. so after the party, nothing happened. he went hes way and i went mine.
then july 2nd comes and i get a text from bob saying “is anything on your tumblr about hes ex gitlfriend” and i was being honest and said yes. because on tumblr i would be like i hate hes girlfriend. she has no idea what she has. etc. and of course he flat out stops talking to me. so a month and ten days later, i tell him off. he replys. we arent friends. thennnnn…lets see…
oh! in septenber we became friends again. for a week. and i make him mad again by saying a 22 year old guy is hot. but when we texted for that week he acted like he missed me. anddd so we havent been friends since then, really since july 2, but i wrote him a letter, saying that basically “i love you, but i need to move on, but i cant blahhhh” and he liked it.
oh yeah forgot a part during summer he liked my best friend, but i stopped them from liking each other cause i love him??? thats what he said. and my friend knew i love him and went out with him and he took her virginity. and they broke up for now. and now the only time me and bob talk is if we are fighting with another on facebook.
and i really dont know what to do. because quite honestly im so numb to emotion.
Well regardless of whether or not it seems like there is anyone better or not, you have to try and move on. I dont feel like there is anyone better than my ex but I really dont have a choice either.
why dont you have a choice?
if he still has any feelings left for you ask him to meet up with you and try to straighten everything out, he still might have hidden feelings for because he thinks you still might have hidden feelings for him just try to untangle your history and find some common ground.
he doesnt. im sure. and my feelings for him arent hidden, at all.
well i guess just contact him in some way and tell him what you feel regardless and also tell him that if he has any feelings left for you that he should just say so but…………… if he doesnt tell him to at least tell you straight up cuzz just leading you on is very very cruel and its hurting you =(
Well, it’s important to start by remembering that finding someone else is A way to get over someone, but it’s not the ONLY way and it’s certainly not the best way. As someone who graduated high school 5 years ago, I can tell you, high school boys are lame, and you can do better than someone who sends you overtly flirty texts and mixed signals while he’s in a relationship. He would probably just turn around and do the same thing to you if you dated him. I know it’s easy for me to say but there are so many more men outside of high school. Trust me! You deserve better than someone who treats you like that!…Hope that helps…:)
thanks adison.kingsle you just gave me alot of hope for the future (:
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