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What is the definition of happiness?

I saw a documentary recently that seriously changed my perspective on life its called ” I am because we are.” Its about the second poorest country in the world Malawi in Africa. 12 million people inhabit this country out of those 12 million there is 1 million orphans, whose parents died due to aids etc. What I find incredible is that although they barely eat, sleep on floors, drink murky waters they look 10 times happier than the people here at home (USA). There smiles are genuine, and not faked or forced. They hug their friends, appreciate any little thing that they get. I feel like although I have worked for everything in my life…I dont deserve it…because i cant smile like them. I cant hug my parents without feeling weird. I cant genuinely smile. Why is that?

I mean seriously, there has to be something wrong with us as an “advanced” civilization when we cant even feel anything anymore, everything is numb…humanity is gone here. Maybe its just me. After I saw the documentary I donated money, now im thinking of going over there and volunteering to help and maybe ill find happiness. What do you think? Am I wrong here? Should I be feeling this way?

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (1 minute after post)

Happiness is a state of mind.

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mrs c offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 425 #
GB | 1 month, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

my neice does piecework in malawi

her&her husband are going to live there in 2012.

im so proud of her, shes a treasure :)

you know what they say*you dont miss what you havnt got*

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Enter Name Here offline Verified User (1 month, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (14 minutes after post)

Mrs C :) wrote:
you know what they say*you dont miss what you havnt got*

I like that =] never heard it. Very true. Your niece is a special person, im glad there are people in this world that still care. I might be doing the same thing im not sure yet how i can contribute to this cause, im trying to find my way. =]

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mrs c offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 425 #
GB | 1 month, 1 week ago (17 minutes after post)

thankyou.

there are lots of ways to contribute to such a cause
ill have a word with my neice if you like :)

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (23 minutes after post)

Yes, please I am a motion graphics artist, I work with broadcast tv stations and also do graphic design. I wonder if those skills can help in anyway =]

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mrs c offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 425 #
GB | 1 month, 1 week ago (27 minutes after post)

it will have to be after the weekend now, as she lives in guernsey
ill talk to her then ,k :)

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Miss Jessica Bunny offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (12 hours, 46 minutes after post)

You’re totally right. It’s quite sickening that we, as westernised individuals can be so dissatisfied when there are so many in far worse conditions than we are, struggling for survival and doing it all with a smile on their faces. I believe, that at the end of the day, it isn’t ‘what’ makes you happy, but whom. Whether it be your family, friends, or even happiness from inside yourself. Material possessions, friends, family, they can all come and go, but you’ve gotta live with you forever.

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