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I have friends, but none who would want to hang out with me.

My family is far away.
Iv never asked a girl out or even kissed a girl.
I actually haven’t even talked to a girl for more than a few seconds.
I’m a listener.
I eat my food alone.
I like to try new stuff, I like to play tennis, i love to travel.
I don’t have a very muscular body. I’m not 6 feet tall.
I have learnt to give, but cannot take.
I do my part of community service.
Every night i pray to God and ask him two questions.
“what am i doing here”
“why am i here to live and die alone”

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Keckers offline Verified User (7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 6 days ago (9 minutes after post)

Wanna go catch a movie?
:P

Seriously it’s totally up to you if you want to change and be more social.
So what if you’re not the ideal guy all the girls dream about.
You’ve been dealt this hand of cards and whatever you are not doesn’t matter at all.
Talk to people, converse with them and don’t be timid.
Chances are the person you’re talking to is just as reluctant in starting a conversation and by doing that you’d just be making things alot simple.
So, have some confidence in yourself.
:)

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iluvmuzicxoxo offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 6 days ago (11 minutes after post)

how old are you?
im not really sure how to help you. you can try to be more outgoing if youre unhappy the way you are. if youre happy then theres not problem in beung anti social.
maybe move closer to you family?

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Anonymous #
3 weeks, 6 days ago (16 minutes after post)

I know life can be painful. I am lucky to have a husband. Besides him, I basically have no one. I talk to strangers when I am at the store and at the bar hoping to find connections. Just start by saying hi to random strangers. You never know what can happen.

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Enter Name Here offline Verified User (3 weeks, 6 days) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 6 days ago (22 minutes after post)

You posted a list of cons about your life. Can we get a list of Pros? Are you a shy person? Why do you eat your food alone?

I would eat with you. I would have a conversation with you. What are you doing here? Well i think we all ask that question at one point, you will find your reason someday…just know that there is a reason.

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Anonymous #
3 weeks, 6 days ago (51 minutes after post)

Im 20 and im rich (excuse the immodesty)

I eat alone, cos well i really don’t know anyone here.

I wouldnt consider myself shy, i actually dont have anything to talk about. No interesting stories. Nothing ordinary.
Nothing out of the ordinary.

In the hope of trying not to think about the dull ache, I m doing a double major for Industrial engineering and Economics and a minor in Mechanical Engineering.
so yes, my time is spent in the library the whole week, every week.

so i dont know what my problem is.

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Anonymous #
3 weeks, 5 days ago (11 hours, 32 minutes after post)

oh haha i tried going out tonight.. and didnt get in anywhere ..
ppl were like “who the hell is he” lol ..

well atleast it was a nice cold walk around campus and got to see some really interesting costumes.

and now im talking to myself in the chat lol

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Anonymous #
3 weeks, 5 days ago (12 hours, 40 minutes after post)

sigh i guess i even alienate people over the internet
im hopeless

guess need to replace my question to god to
“how do i get out of here”

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sahaven offline Verified User (3 weeks, 6 days) Shouts: 96 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 5 days ago (12 hours, 42 minutes after post)

“to God with”

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