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im in love with my best friend.

we dated about a year ago then broke up and got really close, we hung out all summer and he wanted to get back together but he never told me util i started dating someone else. i really wanted to get back together but i didnt want to hurt the other guy. when i finally got the guts to break up with him, it was to late. my best friend had already moved on and doesnt even talk to me anymore.

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3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

It’s water under the bridge…. the time for that relationship has gone… if you had felt anything for him you would have broken up with the guy you were seeing… you could have done it without being nasty…. now you are on your own you want a safe bet to lean on so the ex comes to mind…. Live for the future…. not in the past

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Ravenhawk70 offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Wow, that’s somewhat related to what i went through with my friend.
I’m only 16, so yeah, typical teenage drama, sucks.
I was really into my friend Melanie, but she was into some other loser.
After that other loser turned her down and told her that he wasn’t into her anymore, she caming running to me, and even then i had moved on.
so in a way you’re kinda in her situation, it sucks i know.
you just have to do whatever you can to try to win his heart, do things that he would never imagine a girl would do for him, you know?
When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling.
Live life so that when you die, you’re smiling and everyone around you is crying.

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chev.jame offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 27 minutes after post)

These things happen a lot. It’s just the nature of life!

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