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theres this guy i like but i dont know if he likes me.

how can i tell? cause i dont want to ask.

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evansent:) offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 738 #
GB | 4 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

well does he flirt with you
hold your stare
smile a lot
asked your friends about you

there are a number of ways a lad can display his affections :)

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Keckers offline Verified User (7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

Mutual friend tool time.
:)

You find out through a bunch of friends/acquaintances of get your friends to tell him that you like him.
Personally I hate that approach,having guts and telling him yourself always wins.
:D

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

The Top Ten Signs A Guy Likes You

Trying to understand the male brain can be quite challenging for most women. We are very unique, and simple creatures for the most part. When we like something, we are not very shy about it. Most guys show a ton of signals, and if that does not work, they simply say so. Whatever the case may be, it is imperative to our confidence that you ladies see the signs we send out, and understand them. Otherwise, we might be forced to talk about our feelings and we all know how that usually turns out. To that end, I have created this list.

Here are the top ten signs a guy likes you:

1.- He asks about your family. This is a top sign for sure as most men do not fit this in right away. If he is curious about others in your family, he is either interested in you or he is an IRS agent hunting for your Dad.

2.- He touches you when he talks. Guys are not generally very touchy feely, but when we are gaga that goes out the window. This is particularly true when we are just meeting someone.

3.- When he starts watching chick flicks with you. No man will sit through Steel Magnolias without being head over heels in love with his girl.

4.- He spends more time with you than he does with his truck or buddies. This is the litmus test ladies. Does he choose to spend his time with you or his friends?

5.- He skips over ball games he otherwise would never miss. This is a big one for most guys. If you take precedence over ball games, then you are moving up the list of things that he is into.

6.- He takes your side in your disagreements with his Mother. This is super rare and is reserved only for those relationships with women who we are truly in love with.

7.- If he has just met you, and asks for your phone number, he likes you. No guy asks for a number just to be friends. Similarly, he will only ask for that phone number if he intends to use it.

8.- If your man begins trying to learn things you are interested in just to impress you, that is a very good sign on the like-meter. We men are creatures of familiarity, and we do not generally go outside of our “good at it” zone.

9.- If your man writes you love notes or poetry, he has it bad for you. This is not something we are naturally wired to do. You should consider yourself loved if you get this from your man.

10.- If your man goes to a party, and never leaves your side, then he is really into you. We are natural rovers after all, and when we settle into spending our party time with one woman, it is a great sign that we like you.

Each of these are signs that a guy likes you, but they are far from all inclusive. If you keep your eyes open, you are likely to know when a guy is really into you. Just remember that we are generally simple, and wear our feelings on our sleeves.

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An Unknown Location | 4 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

ask…don’t make a fuss of it and just ask…

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