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I met a guy I went through the whole of school with after 18 years of not seeing him!

We went for a coffee and got on great. So. He asked if I wanted to catch up again and he’d call me in a few days……But he hasnt! I have no idea why as we got on brilliant and he text saying he enjoyed my company.

Shall I call/text him or leave it?

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kitt e offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 35 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (5 minutes after post)

Argh! Why do guys do that? I’m glad I found one that doesn’t. But don’t give up on him yet..just find something, ANYTHING, that can possibly distract you because it’s horrible to wait for a call like that. How many days has it been?

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optimismiles offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (8 minutes after post)

Hmmm. I’d give it a couple more days. Which is harder than it sounds, huh!? Then, if he doesn’t in a few days, I’d definitely text or call him. Be bold. But, when you do text him, have an idea of a plan. Something fun and creative that will catch his attention.

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kitt e offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 35 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (9 minutes after post)

Good idea, optimismiles! Is there some kind of event that might be going on where you could send him one of those last minute invites? Maybe some kind of show or an art exhibit or something?

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 69 #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks ago (58 minutes after post)

Call him. Sometimes guys need a little push…

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charlotte_5 offline Verified User (1 month, 1 week) Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

call him ask him why he hasent text/called you back then take it from there

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