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So i met this guy and i didnt know he had a girlfrind,

but he never told me,and i broke up with my boyfriend two monthes later, and got with him.Now 1 month after we have been togther i find out he left his girlfriend for me.His ex girlfirend hate me.
what do i do??

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optimismiles offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (7 minutes after post)

be careful, boys who leave the ones for the ones they like, may do it again.
write her a letter and explain it. if things with this guy aren’t worth it, and you can, i would highly recommend walking away from him. what he did was shady. what if you had been the girlfriend? he deserves what will come around

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 70 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (10 minutes after post)

Didn’t you just say you left your boyfriend for him too? What is the problem?

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assylumalyss offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (14 minutes after post)

i dont want to get hurt again. but my exboyfriend, we were on and on and off relashonship.

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3 weeks, 4 days ago (16 minutes after post)

He’s lied… and in theory cheated on you… you thought he was with you and you alone and he wasn’t…. he certainly cheated on her… as for dumping your boyfriend for him well you choose to do that and will have to be content with being on your own for a while…. your boyfriend is not going to change… how can you even consider ever trusting him?

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 70 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (19 minutes after post)

When did he leave his girlfriend for you? I never heard anything that means he is a cheat…

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assylumalyss offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (21 minutes after post)

He’s like the man i dreamd of…its differnt with him….he treats me like im the world….its awkward… i just wish there was a way i knew whats going to happen in the end cuz i love him he sayes he loves me…but i just dont know.

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3 weeks, 4 days ago (22 minutes after post)

Oh Dr Ralph you’re right…. the post doesn’t actually indicate that he was with both of them at the same time… i apologise for my comment above…. the guy may be a decent bloke after all.

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assylumalyss offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (25 minutes after post)

When he met me he broke up with his girlfriend.

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 70 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (32 minutes after post)

Just like you broke up with your boyfriend. Sounds legal and legit to me, you guys were looking for each other and didn’t even know it. What are you scared of, things are too good and you are afraid you won’t have it long?

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assylumalyss offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

exactly

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 70 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

We are all in the same boat. The future is always uncertain, at least you have someone you love.

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assylumalyss offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (1 hour, 14 minutes after post)

Thank you….you helped a lot :]

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...Angel... offline Verified User (7 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (6 hours, 23 minutes after post)

I just read the Post and I agree with Dr. Ralph dint you just broke up with him and now you are back with him. What are you going

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