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Should i text my boyfriend first or should I let him start a conversation?

He usually texts me everyday but today he hasn’t today he hasnt.I have seen him a lot this weekend but i dont know.. i don’t want to be too clingy either.

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PheeGee offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (4 minutes after post)

text him, he texts you every day and youre worried about being clingy? Im guessing he just wants you to put the effort in.

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1 month ago (6 minutes after post)

This is from personal experience that I am going through RIGHT NOW with the girl I like, and if I could directly tell her, I would say this: Making ME (the guy) starting the conversation ALL THE TIME only makes me feel clingy and makes me think that you are not interested in me.

i’m not sure if all girls are like this (never starting the conversation) but if it is, i wish they would stop…

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1 month ago (9 minutes after post)

PheeGee wrote:
text him, he texts you every day and youre worried about being clingy? Im guessing he just wants you to put the effort in.

i agree

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1 month ago (12 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
This is from personal experience that I am going through RIGHT NOW with the girl I like, and if I could directly tell her, I would say this: Making ME (the guy) starting the conversation ALL THE TIME only makes me feel clingy and makes me think that you are not interested in me.

i’m not sure if all girls are like this (never starting the conversation) but if it is, i wish they would stop…

maybe shes just shy. idk i think I’m being too clingy with the guy i like and he ignores me now, but he said he wouldn’t ever ignore me. but the last time we talked he said he wanted to be alone

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1 month ago (22 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
This is from personal experience that I am going through RIGHT NOW with the girl I like, and if I could directly tell her, I would say this: Making ME (the guy) starting the conversation ALL THE TIME only makes me feel clingy and makes me think that you are not interested in me.

i’m not sure if all girls are like this (never starting the conversation) but if it is, i wish they would stop…

maybe shes just shy. idk i think I’m being too clingy with the guy i like and he ignores me now, but he said he wouldn’t ever ignore me. but the last time we talked he said he wanted to be alone

She’s not shy. It was her who started talking to me first and befriended me on facebook. then i started getting closer to her and meeting her more and everything was great until last month. she started getting more isolated around the time school started and now she hasn’t started the conversation in 2 months.

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Anonymous #
1 month ago (49 minutes after post)

It should be a two way street…. how hard is it to text saying hi or are you ok?

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Anonymous #
1 month ago (56 minutes after post)

oh, i think both should start conversations

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An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (12 hours, 4 minutes after post)

why are you people dating people you are too scared to talk to? Jeeeezus, people these days.

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