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Is wondering why I can’t seem to find love!

I always see everyone just settle. Is falling in love really like fireworks or is that just a myth?

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4 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

I can’t seem to find love either!

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fractal.scatter offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 288 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

Nah falling in love is like staring into a flameball; hypnotic but very scary.

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charlotte_5 offline Verified User (1 month, 1 week) Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

Mabey Get a face transplate yeaaah :)

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Raven78 offline Verified User (1 month) Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

I found it and lost it, and have come to the conclusion that no other woman on earth comes close to her and have therefore retired from being a lothario lol.
If you have never found it, be patient it will come.

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

“everyone just settles”?

Well.. when you say something judgmental like that it makes me think you are probably a romantic who has an ideal sense of what falling in love means. This ideal prevents you from simply enjoying dating and getting to know people because you are so focused on your ideal. That kind of focus also really turns other people off and so you lose the chance to actually enjoy others’ company.

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napster42 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
Waterloo, ON, CA | 4 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

your attitude… maybe you need to work on it

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 46 Add Friend #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 59 minutes after post)

Love like in the movies is just a myth.

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks, 6 days ago (22 hours, 49 minutes after post)

Love is a myth - until it happens, and then it is a reality…
I haven’t found it yet either, but I know it will come =)

I totally get what linuxya is saying, i think, correct me if I’m wrong.

We all have ideas of what sort of person we want, and who we will end up with. We go looking for people just like our dreams, but in reality everybody falls short in some way. Nobody is perfect, and everybody has issues.

Just live life, meet people, and talk to them…build a relationship no matter what they look like, where they come from or what they do.
They will probably be an interesting person to talk to, everybody has a story to tell - why not hear theirs.

And if love doesn’t happen, friends always have friends ;)

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