Don’t look too hard, but find your weaknesses. They can sometimes be used as strengths. For instance:
In a high school in NY, there was a boy who was born without a left arm. He couldn’t play football or basketball, after all, you will probably need both arms to play them. One day, he was walking past the gym, and the wrestling coach stopped him and said “You are coming to wrestling practice after school today.” The boy was confused. Don’t you need both arms to wrestle? The boy said “How can i wrestle? I only have one arm.” The coach said “Come in here, I’ll show you a move right now.” He went in and he learned the move. After school, he goes to practice and goes up against the school’s best wrestler. HE WINS. He was confused. He joins the team because everyone was so impressed. He goes on to the state championship and wins. after everything is over and the cheering is done, he goes to the coach and asks “What did you do to me?” The coach says “It’s not what I did, but what you are.” He was still confused. The coach continued “I taught you a move where the only counter was to GRAB THE LEFT ARM.” As long as he used that move, he could never be defeated.
That story got me through my hard times by giving me a reason. My weakness is that i am very easily moved by emotion. But the strength is I am able to help people like me with not just that story, but that of my car accident (a VERY long story). If you have any problems, contact me at i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>.