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1 month ago (9 minutes after post)

No one is worthless - it is such a horrible way to feel, especially because you don’t know how much you mean to some people. I guarantee you that without you here, someone else’s life would be much worswe because people need you, even if they don’t tell you that often. Ask your friends and family if they need you, and you’ll find the answers heartwarming :) I’m glad you posted this on here - it shows you want help and I really hope you don’t consider suicide, because there will come a time soon where you value your life for what it is so much that you will be thankful for it. You are the only person who is you, and whilst others may doubt you, you should never doubt yourself because you should always feel what you are doing is the best thing for you, even if it isn’t - we learn so much from our mistakes. Without mistakes, we’d never have Coca-cola or cheese or penicilin!
I hope you get ovber this feeling, as it really is not nice - remember how much you mean :)

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Anonymous #
1 month ago (6 hours, 31 minutes after post)

ii understand what you’re going through. you are not worthless.
dont let someone else defines who you are and your worth. let me be clear, you are precious intrinsically and your worth does not depend on what other people say. god loves you much that he sent his son jesus to die for you. a king died in your place. you are so loved and so precious. dont give up hope ok. find a place where they can unconditionally accept you just as who you are. a biblical church would be a good start. it’s a place for broken people just like we are. again, jesus loves you. someone posted a good message here - “an escape from i.” take care

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emailextra6 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

Don’t look too hard, but find your weaknesses. They can sometimes be used as strengths. For instance:
In a high school in NY, there was a boy who was born without a left arm. He couldn’t play football or basketball, after all, you will probably need both arms to play them. One day, he was walking past the gym, and the wrestling coach stopped him and said “You are coming to wrestling practice after school today.” The boy was confused. Don’t you need both arms to wrestle? The boy said “How can i wrestle? I only have one arm.” The coach said “Come in here, I’ll show you a move right now.” He went in and he learned the move. After school, he goes to practice and goes up against the school’s best wrestler. HE WINS. He was confused. He joins the team because everyone was so impressed. He goes on to the state championship and wins. after everything is over and the cheering is done, he goes to the coach and asks “What did you do to me?” The coach says “It’s not what I did, but what you are.” He was still confused. The coach continued “I taught you a move where the only counter was to GRAB THE LEFT ARM.” As long as he used that move, he could never be defeated.

That story got me through my hard times by giving me a reason. My weakness is that i am very easily moved by emotion. But the strength is I am able to help people like me with not just that story, but that of my car accident (a VERY long story). If you have any problems, contact me at i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>.

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