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Addicted to Wow?

I just feel like lately ive been playing non-stop and i almost never go out with friends, (mostly cuz my friends are playing the game as we speak) and the classmates are douches, but ive been asked to go out alot anyhow and ive always said no, same as with girls who have asked me to be their boyfriend, i always said no because i dont feel like i have time, its like school,Wow,sleep and repeat. i just feel like i need to get out more but i dont know how to get started, ive always been interested in drawing manga and it would be awesome if i could learn how to. but it just feels like im too lazy to even get started, i used to train karate and stopped because it was “interfering with my gaming time” i need help with this addiction, though i cannot say that i want to stop playing completely. Cheers.

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tythecooldude0 offline Verified User (3 weeks, 5 days) Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 5 days ago (10 minutes after post)

I haven’t played WoW but I know about addictive gaming. Since you’re interested in drawing Manga here is what I suggest, because it ended up helping me. I’m an artist, gmaer, geek/nerd girl. n_n best combo ever!
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Anyways… Keep playing WoW, but slowly come off it. Let’s say you play 4 hours of WoW… take the last hour off and draw characters for a Manga you want to start. Do that for a week or so, and then up it by taking another hour off. Set a goal for your Manga, like a page a day or 2. And upload it to a comic website, like smackjeeves.com. You’ll end up getting fans and people who want to read your story!
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Eventually you’ll want to draw and create your Manga more then playing WoW. And with playing less WoW you can add more time with going out with friends. Try making a habbet of going out at least 1 time a week with friends. It will help your social life… your physical life… and not some digital world. I know it’s fun and addicting. But just try to do less. It’s not saying goodbye to the game, it’s just adding more time to do more fun things.
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Keep me posted! I know I would love to read your Manga!
Your friend,
~Ali

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks, 5 days ago (34 minutes after post)

Addictions happen when something fills some deep need in you. I suspect WoW is actually just an escape for you from the anxiety related to socializing with people.

Whenever you avoid something that makes you anxious, you feel relief and that reinforces your desire to avoid that thing again. So you create an addiction by using WOW to avoid something else in your life…. lots of socializing.

The way to break the addiction isn’t to wean yourself off it. It’s to throw it away and throw yourself into socializing regardless of your anxiety about it. Persist until you feel relief with socializing and you will never think of WOW again.

Get yourself the book “How to start a conversation and make friends” by DOn Gabor. Perfect practical advice to focus on developing relationships with people (nothing touchy feely).

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Ditzy offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 40 #
Ventura, CA, US | 3 weeks, 2 days ago (2 days, 22 hours after post)

Linuxya is right. Its escapism. I’ve been there and it sucks. The insta-gratification of getting the next piece of gear, killing the next boss, murdering/pwning somebody in PvP.

It is a lot easier to make yourself happy using the game. It is not so easy to provide entertainment and happiness in real life. Especially if your real life is crap (not saying yours is - your life may be awesome - mine wasn’t so much)

I quit about 4 months back. Got in to writing. Best thing I have done in a while. Still sorting out my life after the 2 year addiction. Friend bridges to build, better job to find. Currently writing my first novel.

Do not allow your life to be run by the game. Limit your use, find new friends, develop a different hobby. Anything!

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rohitmoha offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 days, 14 hours ago (2 weeks, 5 days after post)

This is some really good advice, I wish I had read this before going cold turkey from wow. I have ‘quit’ wow many times to ‘revise’ for exams, but instead I just find something else to play and once again I have quit wow its been about a month since I played it and already I have had a craving to play it. Also I have my A-Level exams coming up in January and failing them is the fear that is stopping me from playing wow. But since i am a moron I end up on facebook/youtube/warcraft 3. I guess I will have to wait it out and hope for the best.

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