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i like this guy im friends with.

he is 3 years older than me but he is so awesome. he is always making me laugh and teases me in a friendly way and lets me tease back. he asked me out once befor but i didnt kno him that well so i said no. but now ive gotten to kno him and i like him but i dont wanna ask him out. what should i do?

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adamo offline Verified User (3 weeks, 2 days) Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 1 day ago (1 minute after post)

Bring it up as a joke - say something like “yeah, well, if I was your girlfriend I would . . . bla bla” - start dropping hints like that (and make references to how you know him better now) and he’ll get the message.

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An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 1 day ago (11 minutes after post)

I would get together with him and just talk for a while. Maybe in the process you’ll end up talking about your feelings for each other. If he’s a good friend he wont leave you as a friend if he said no. I think you should talk to him.

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An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 1 day ago (1 week after post)

You should ask him out unless he has a girlfriend. I don’t know how old you are, but there comes a point when you realize that honesty works, and games aren’t needed. He asked you out which means at some point he was interested in you. If you are careful and nice you should be able to maintain the friendship if he says no, (as long as you are both mature).

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