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I don’t know what to do!

There is a guy i’ve liked for the past two monthes (since i met him) and we’ve become good friends, but he has a girlfriend. Well the other night I found out from him that his girlfriend suspects me of liking him and to make maters worse my other friend blurts out that the way we act is like we are dating. He also told my friend that he’s not sure how much longer him and his girlfriend are going to be together. So now i’m trying really hard to forget about him because i don’t want to be caught up in this mess or have his girlfriend who is also sort of a friend of mine hate me. But the more i try to forget the more i get hurt and i almost want to tell him how i feel but i’m worried about what will happen. Also when i later asked my friend if it was obvious that i liked this guy he told me “well at least one of you admitted it” so i think the guy i like likes me to. I need some major advice, i’ve never been in this sort of situation.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 150 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 weeks, 4 days ago (2 minutes after post)

One word: Rebound. Stay away from him for a while after he breaks up with his current girlfriend. Don’t be a rebound girlfriend.

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 weeks, 4 days ago (26 minutes after post)

Save yourself all this drama.

Socialize with lots of people to meet lots of new guys. Date around. Don’t get so focused on people.

Guys who have girlfriends are ALWAYS more attractive. Why? Because they are confident and not desperate like lonely single guys.

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An Unknown Location | 1 week, 4 days ago (1 week after post)
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