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Don’t know if he likes me/ how to approach it?

Last year I noticed this guy at school and I thought he was kind of cute. I only noticed him because he would walk down the hall with the guy that I had a crush on. Last year he would look at me and point and stuff like that as I walked by, but I thought it was because the guy I liked had told him about me.( I guess I was more hoping he did.) This year I see him after almost every class and sometimes during lunch. In the halls he ALWAYS stares and watches me walk by. I notice his friends started doing things to him as I walk by. I sometimes here them say things like that’s the girl or that’s her. Then the other day I was walking behind him and we were the only 2 in the hall. He kept looking back at me. During lunch sometimes he comes to the cafeteria and will walk by my table and always looks at me and makes eye contact. The thing is I’ve never even had a class with him. I just learned his name a few weeks ago and only because it seems that in every one of my classes someone brings him up and describes him or talks about him. I think it would be weird to try and go on with this because we don’t know each other. I also don’t want it to be another crush where I really like the guy and end up getting hurt because he doesn’t even know I exist. What should I do?

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Anonymous #
2 weeks, 4 days ago (30 minutes after post)

You will never know unless you try. Talk to him, make a conversation, accidentally bump into him in the hallway that should break the ice for him to talk to you.

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collinwright1 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 4 days ago (35 minutes after post)

trust me girl this dude likes you haha. he just probably isnt making a move because you havent really given any contact that you like him back yet. some guys just need that intial spark. i know its lame but maybe sometime when your walking by him say “hey cutie”. yes the worry of oh my god he is gunna think im an idiot bc i dont know him but guys dont think that way. especially when it has something to do with a girl we like. even if he didnt like you he would love the compliment and address you in some way. with all that you can start that spark and get towards that relationship. if none of that works i will personally come to your school and ask the dude lol. good luck. trust me all the signs you mentioned are the signs of a nervous guy. ive been in that situation before.

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classicrock1818 offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 4 days ago (54 minutes after post)

start talking to him, just friendly, not flirty. cant hurt, can it?

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collinwright1 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 4 days ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

girl if i were you i would flirt little bit that way he knows your interested you know. maybe after like a week of knowing him tell him that he looks really cute in a shirt or something. then gradually build it after that. you got this dont worry. oooooo and another thing when he is staring at you look right in his eyes right back at him and do your sexy face haha and smile.

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wwekanerock offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 week, 3 days ago (1 week after post)

I am going through the same thing i think you should talk to him and be friends for now.

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