Help I am 22 And a failure in all of my relationships because

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Help I am 22 And a failure in all of my relationships

because i have communication issues Everytime i talk with someone i am dating i eventually shut down and stop communicating because i feel like the other person will never understand me…..

Im a bad girlfriend

and i say ima bad girlfriend because i cannot satisfy my boyfriends.

ever.

im asexual

im crazy

and i am always bored!…..mentally

What the hell do i do….

how can i stop having communication problems

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Trampy 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 3 days ago (6 minutes after post)

What kind of communication problems?

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piledriver_ 1 #
Walnut Creek, CA, US | 3 weeks, 3 days ago (8 minutes after post)

I can relate to what you are saying. I have a terrible time with communication with others. At times it leaves me alone and hurting. That definately sucks. Anyways at least we know there are two of us. Chin up, I think you will experience happiness in the future.

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collinwright1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 3 days ago (10 minutes after post)

girl dont worry about if the dude understands you or not. i dont understand my girlfriend 90 percent of the time and i dont give a (email removed) the guys that you get with obvisiously like you for something and if they feel that they dont like you anymore bc the way that you act then f%$& them. there is someone out there who will love you for who you are. trust me i know this dude who is one of my good friends and this crazy! when he gets pissed off he throws sh#% and is just a real downer but his girlfriend still works with him, still loves him, and still loves him for who he is. dont let yourself get controlled by fear. worry is a waste of the imagination. do your thing. let your voice be heard. your strong then this!!!!!!!!!!!!!! come on! be proud girl!!!!!! haha hope this helped

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crymartine 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 3 days ago (17 minutes after post)

thank you it really did

calemus 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 3 days ago (18 minutes after post)

poor thing,,,,i wonder where they guys are failing at how to teach you to be able to comunicate
being in a relationship is an investment into the future, and that takes teaching and learning how to comunicate with your mate

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crymartine 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 3 days ago (19 minutes after post)

actually it did help

crymartine 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 3 days ago (20 minutes after post)

they just always joke about me or question me on why i do certain things then when i tell a guy what he is doing to cause me to behave certain ways they always debate that they arent doing anything

calemus 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 3 days ago (9 hours, 15 minutes after post)

some how it sounds like u r dating collage rich kids

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