boyfriend help: okay my boyfriend will not return my phone calls and he moved me out of his tops on myspace.com should i consider it over and move on? - Help.com

you shouldnt consider it over until he says its over. you should talk to him about it and tell him whats bothering you, and why. i mean, if YOU think it should be over, then by all means tell him. but if he hasnt come right out and said “i don’t think we should date anymore” then its not.

nice to see another kentuckian on here. im from louisville

Some peeps avoid difficult situations, so if he does want it to be over, he might treat you like this until you tell him that it’s over, cuz he can’t bring himself to say it. It’s foolish, I know, but that’s how some ppl work.

Just give him some space and some time. Maybe that’s what he wants right now. Leave one message and tell him what’s bothering you and ask the big question, then wait. At some point, either he’ll respond or you’ll realize he doesn’t care enough to and then you call him and tell him it’s over. Do you know him well enough to know his coping methods, like if he gets too stressed out, how does he handle it…anger, shuts off, gives up, etc…? Or is this the first time he’s done something like this?

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maybe you should pot up naked pics and we’ll decide.

hmmmm. good luck with life man.

how long has it been? I’ve been dumped in this method–it took me 2 weeks to realise he hadn’t called me. some people avoid confrontation at all costs. he might just be upset about something else though.

He has pathologically bad coping skills. THis is a huge red flag for the future anyway. Best to end things now and find someone who is more ready for dealing with relationship issues. THings only get more complicated as you move ahead.

How long have you guys been together? It sound like he has already moved on. I would not continue to give him the time of day. I know thats hard when you care about someone but come on now two weeks? I mean a couple of days to clear your mind might be understandable but two weeks in not. I wish you the best of luck though either way.