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My home life is very complex.

Im being physically and emotionaly abused and every time i ask for help the police take me back home and say its my fault not my moms. She has lied to the cops and has had me arrested and im on the verge of probably getting arrested again because i ran away from home when i told the police i wouldnt. Although im tired of living with lies in my life and losing control of myself when i used to be able to control myself fine before my mom started 4 years ago with the abuse. D.C.F. has already put up several cases and closed them all making me look like the bad one. im scarred and im refusing myself to go home, get arrested and have to live with my mother. What do i do? DCF dont help and the police are agaonst me and there are no wittnesses that see any of the things going on.

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AAPES2 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks, 5 days ago (11 minutes after post)

Have you tried contacting an abuse help line or an advocay center? They tend to believe you no matter how much the abuser lies. And get a tape recorder. While it is not admissable in court once someone hears it the truth can not be ignored. Write everything down. Document incidents. Surround yourself with people if possible. If you don’t mind me asking how old are you? There is a way out!! I know I went through it myself. Do you have other family you could go live with? I really want to help. Its hard I know. Especially when no one will listen and they make you feel like its your fault. Its not. No one deserves to be abused no matter what. I don’t blame you for wanting to run away. Its not the answer though.

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RC offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Jacksonville, FL, US | 3 weeks, 5 days ago (6 hours, 20 minutes after post)

i will say it won’t be long untill your grown and will make your own choices in your life,,with that comes your own consequences to deal with,,not knowing you or your crazy mom,,i do know family is the most important thing we have,,sometimes when we are young we forget that,,try to take care of all your responsibilites and give her only good stuff to think of,,,she must have done some good in your life as she has you…make her day easy as this is a hard world and there are no free lunches …be safe,,god bless..

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