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Im worried.

The guy I am seeing spends a lot of time in online chat rooms. I try to let him be it seems to be his thing. What has me concerned is that when we first met it was through online classifieds. Our friendship and later a relationship started that way. Then we met and spent a lot of time together and eventually fell for each other. I told him how I felt about him always being on these sites and why i felt that way. He said I was just being silly and blew off the conversation. I’m not sure how to approach this without making a big deal out of it all. I’m normally not a jealous person but this is really bugging me. Any advice?

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Anonymous #
4 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

hmm…tricky, i would ask him what exactly he likes about online chatrooms…if his answer seems questionable or he gets defensive then i’d say you have a problem, otherwise its just something your going to have to deal with

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Anonymous #
4 weeks ago (5 hours, 56 minutes after post)

Ah thats a good way to go about it without seeming to be jealous or trying to pick a fight!!! Thanks I will def approach the matter that way and see what happens.

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