BOYFRIEND PROBLEMS HELP PLEASE! - Help.com

raiderettegir
offline Verified (1 year, 3 months) Visit raiderettegir's shoutbox
An Unknown Location

BOYFRIEND PROBLEMS HELP PLEASE!

okay..
well me and my boyfriend/ex broke up yesterday all because
i told him that this guy touched my ***.
i told him because i wanted to be honest and **** .
then it gets turned on me and then he broke up with me.
i dont understand how this is my fault :(
then..
his mom texted me saying jesses hella hurt and he likes you alot and stuff
but he doesnt want guys to be disrespecting you because hed never do that to you.
and stuff…
then she said shes gonna tlk to him for me and stuff..
but i have to wait till 4 30 today for him to text me
and see if he changed his mind. :( HELP!

This open post was written 1 month ago | V/U/S: 97, 4, 3 | Edit Post | Leave a reply | Report Post


Reciprocity (0) Reciprocation Failure -- The poster has NOT helped anyone else yet!

Since writing this post raiderettegir may have helped people, but has not within the last 4 days. raiderettegir is a verified member, has been around for 1 year, 3 months and has 101 posts and 709 replies to their name.

Post Tags (0)

This post has no tags. Please, help out and add some! (How Tags Affect Reciprocity)

Replies (4)

Where were you?

Click and drag to move the map around. FAQ: How we place people on this map »
You can also watch events on Help.com as they happen
Mouse over the map for 2 seconds to see an expanded, interactive view

ℓινιηg4уσυ offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 820 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month ago (9 minutes after post)

vexsuspha wrote:
It sounds like he cares about you and simply overreacted. I doubt that your relationship has been destroyed especially considering his mother is in the loop and understands the situation. Just be patient, and try not to worry. I really don’t think that a boyfriend who respects you that much would leave you behind so abruptly over something that isn’t even your fault. Just find a way to pass the time and be comfortable. If you can, do something you know you’ll enjoy, eat something you love, or if you can afford it, buy something nice for yourself. The key is to relax and try to stay logical until you touch base with your man. Hope that helps. :) -Micah

100% agreee

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: I’m Hurting a lot….
DoubleGin19 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 53 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (11 minutes after post)

okay first things first. calm down over there missy. now the reason your boyfriend is hurting so much over what you told him, is because he is jealous. i know how stupid it sounds as you’re his girlfriend. but not many guys like hearing how other guys have touched their girl. and thats why he broke up with you.

im sure his mummy will slap him silly though. and make him realize just how amazing a girl he has. because you were honest enough to tell him :) and im sure by the time 4 30 comes, he will be apologizing like crazy :) x

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: Darts.
raiderettegir offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (15 minutes after post)

vexsuspha wrote:
It sounds like he cares about you and simply overreacted. I doubt that your relationship has been destroyed especially considering his mother is in the loop and understands the situation. Just be patient, and try not to worry. I really don’t think that a boyfriend who respects you that much would leave you behind so abruptly over something that isn’t even your fault. Just find a way to pass the time and be comfortable. If you can, do something you know you’ll enjoy, eat something you love, or if you can afford it, buy something nice for yourself. The key is to relax and try to stay logical until you touch base with your man. Hope that helps. :) -Micah

thank you so much.(:
this was a great reply.
thanks for your help ! (:

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
raiderettegir offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (16 minutes after post)

DoubleGin19 wrote:
okay first things first. calm down over there missy. now the reason your boyfriend is hurting so much over what you told him, is because he is jealous. i know how stupid it sounds as you’re his girlfriend. but not many guys like hearing how other guys have touched their girl. and thats why he broke up with you.

im sure his mummy will slap him silly though. and make him realize just how amazing a girl he has. because you were honest enough to tell him :) and im sure by the time 4 30 comes, he will be apologizing like crazy :) x

i hope your right..im scared to see what hes gonna say..
thank you so much (:

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators

Invite Others to Help

A logged in and verified Help.com member has the ability to setup a Friends List and invite others to help with posts.