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My best friends are fighting

and im stuck in the middle

they are trying to get me on their side but i dont know what to do

please help.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 weeks, 4 days ago (1 minute after post)

Why don’t you try to mediate their problem. Try to see what they are fighting about and you come up with a “happy middle” or a point at which they can compromise.

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2 weeks, 4 days ago (3 minutes after post)

one of them keeps going off with another friend which is my other friends cousin but she is moving, and they keep going off levaving one friend in her own and thats why there fighting

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 weeks, 4 days ago (5 minutes after post)

Well, tell them that is not worth fighting if other people are causing their fights. Are they good friends or just acquaintances?

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Anonymous #
2 weeks, 4 days ago (6 minutes after post)

well one likes one and the other doesnt
so there not very close to begin with
and i dont want to pick sides

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 weeks, 4 days ago (12 minutes after post)

Tell them to talk to each other about what’s bothering them. They might come to a nonviolent agreement. If not, tell them to stay away from each other and you do your best to keep them away from each other.

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Anonymous #
2 weeks, 4 days ago (15 minutes after post)

I’ll try :S

thanks

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swirly51 offline Verified User (2 weeks, 6 days) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 4 days ago (34 minutes after post)

my advice would be to not ge involved. just let them work it out, its their problem and you dont have to be apart of it if you dont want to

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bbiikelse offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 week, 1 day ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

awww this happened to me reasently all i did was spend equal time with each of them and try help by asking why they argued. If one of them says its the other ones fault then its not its no ones fault we all argue x

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