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Uzma_101

Heyy people i need major help!

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the guy who i like and now absolutley adore, was getting really serious with me, hes good looking, i would say he is attractive, but looks are not what have drawn me to him, its the sort of person he is,
he isnt like any other boy i’ve known. He really is a dedicated easy going sort of person. He even told my best friend he started gym for me!! He’s always been nothing but nice + never caused any problems for me, always been easy + always did what was easier for me.
anyway.. i really messed things up when he was on the verge of asking me out, i told him i dont think we can be together which was the stupidest thing i’ve ever done!
he even told me he would wait for me, and i’m ridiculous for telling him not to, hes a good guy patient and easy going, and isnt one of those idiots who’s always in relationship which is surprising!

he hasnt made things awkward he still keeps cool with me but i can feel that there is a difference in our relatioship, i miss the way he was with me before and realise he was right one for me! he wasnt even rushing into anything, he did everything slowly over a a few months our relatioship expanded and i realised he is a realy great person, just what i want.
HOW DO I GET THINGS BACK AGAIN??! OR SHALL I LET TIME FIX THINGS?? CAN HE REALLY GET OVER ME SO QUIKLY?? HOW I GET THINGS BACK!!?? HELP HELP HELP, anyone who helps me with this, is a real life saver! :’(

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steff 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

why did you say no?

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Keckers 5 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Oh okay.
Then now it’s your turn to man up and tell him that y’like him.
:D
GOFERIT!

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Uzma_101 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

because i was stupid and too scared to take a ‘leap in life’ lets say. I didnt mean it, and i was having a bad day that day too, i really wish i just told him; Lets do this baybie 3 x :’(
i must of really broke his heart when i rejected hime like that, i feel like so horrible. help plzsz,

steff 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

But what were you afraid of?

And why are you afraid to tell him now?

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Uzma_101 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

its wierd bcos i’ve already told him, and i told him when i rejected him that ‘i still do like him alot but i dont think we can b together’. everything was falling into places im sucha idiot!!

candp 56 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

It is easy. Just tell him what you just told all of us and I bet you two will be an item. Sounds like a good guy and good guys respect your feelings. Probably does not want you feel he is pressuring you. Carol

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steff 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

send him the link to this post ;)

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

hes the only boy i know i can really honestly and truly trust im not scared to tell him anything.
I wouldnt mind telling him, but im scared i will just chicken out again or soemthing :/ ..i dnt really know what i was afraid of, its just that if i really got attatched to him then if i ever had to de-attatch to him, because were in yr1O might leave school soon and go to college etc. meet new people, i think i would shatter nd i guess i was just trying to protect myself, because i can b so sensitive. but i really want him now because it the chances we take in life that make us stronger. Im scared if i tell him he might think im messing him aboutt too much.

Uzma_101 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

Thanks steff and carol. ;] bless x

steff 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

“but im scared i will just chicken out again or soemthing”…aka, you’re scared you’ll be scared.

just do it. end of story.

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candp 56 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

Silly, if you are in the US you still have 2 more years of high school. Live in the moment, not in the future. It is more fun. Carol

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brunnets_rocks_7 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

Poor you, i know exactly how you feel, the same thing is happening to me right now. This guy really liked me and asked me out, i was confused at the time, and said we should just be friends for now. But then i realised i messed up, i really missed him and i love him allot. Now we’ve been talking more, having deep conversations, i even told him i liked him and we shared personal things. It seemed like he liked me allot, flirting, calling me babe saying sweet things and everything. He is the sweetest guy ever, but lately he is barely talking to me.. seems like he is avoiding me, and it hurts allot. There’s nothing we can really do, and i understand how hard it is, for me he is the only guy i’ve really liked that much, and i told him EVERYTHING. Try to tell him how you feel, and be yourself. ;P

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Uzma_101 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

LOOLL! i kno it sounds stoopid but i kno we are in for a long term relationship here ;] im always telling people to live for the moment and live life to the max, but i cant take my own advice, lool, nice to hav ppl help sort my head out abit.

candp 56 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (39 minutes after post)

Happy we could help. Just trust your own advice you would offer your best friend.
Carol

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (43 minutes after post)

brunnets_rocks_7 : awww, atleast i know i am not the only one.
yeah i will try my best to get more comfortable with him. hes in almost all my lessons, i just need to sit next to him now nd be alone with him, it just i cant be alone with him, when my friends are there, i mean they know that deep inside i do have feelings for him, but i’d rather talk to him ALONE!
oUT OF ALL THE GUYS I’VE EVER KNOWN I CAN TELL HIM THE MOST SERIOUSLY AND I CAN TRUST HIM aswell to keep his word etc. he hasnt even like flirted much with other girls for the past months,usually i was the one flirting with other guys to tease him, and it was so cute! yeah he used to call me things like ‘beeh’ , hun and sexcii i miss it too, wow guys are like drugs; adictive.

brunnets_rocks_7 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (48 minutes after post)

Yesss, i agree. :P

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