my bf is 15 turning 16 next month… i just turned 13… age ok? - Help.com

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my bf is 15 turning 16 next month…

i just turned 13… age ok? opinos please?

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swirly51 offline Verified User (1 month, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (1 minute after post)

hmmm id say its a little steep, just make sure his motives are pure if you know what i mean. but if youre happy together i think its fine

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aquafin offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (3 minutes after post)

your parents know him?

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dana_spenc offline Verified User (1 month) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (4 minutes after post)

no… my mom is going to meet him this weekend

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Anonymous #
1 month ago (8 minutes after post)

If parents approve. . .your ages are okay - however you must take extra care when he turns 18, if the relationship should last that long.

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jetmoo offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 101 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month ago (9 minutes after post)

I think thats fine. :) as long as he treats you well then, that’s cool

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jetmoo offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 101 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month ago (13 minutes after post)

girls mature earlier than boys anyway. and younger boys drive you mad, well, ME mad. extra immature.

just make sure he doesnt make you do anything you dont wanna do. Make sure you open your mouth if you have to. Never be afraid to say no. okies dokes :)
I wish yous the best of luck, take care now x

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Central offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 141 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (15 minutes after post)

Depends on the relationship. But I’d say you’re both too young… what do I know >:P

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Central offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 141 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (19 minutes after post)

bweir131 wrote:
no no no no he too old for you hun, he will end up being trouble so break up. find someone ur own age.

IT ALL DEPENDS!!!

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stevethemeve offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (20 minutes after post)

i think its totally fine. you’re only two years apart really

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jetmoo offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 101 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month ago (23 minutes after post)

as long as he does not push you into doing anything you dont want to do then I think thats fine. but that shouldn’t even be in the picture yet.

It’s really up to you. You have to make your own mind up. You know the guy better than we do. just keep you common sence with you and think with your head at important times, instead of with your heart.

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Central offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 141 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (28 minutes after post)

It depends on how much you love each other… don’t get into a relationship with someone unless you BOTH have an unselfish love for one another. A selfish love would be getting into a relationship because it would better one’s reputation in society or because they look smokin’ hot. An unselfish love would be sacrificing things for the other person even if it hurt them.
And if you truly, unselfishly love someone the age doesn’t really matter.

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Anonymous #
1 month ago (52 minutes after post)

When I was 16, my first girlfriend was only 12 years old.. She lied to me and said she was 14… We have been together for over 30 years and are now married,, Forget age, listen to intent..

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Central offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 141 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (54 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
When I was 16, my first girlfriend was only 12 years old.. She lied to me and said she was 14… We have been together for over 30 years and are now married,, Forget age, listen to intent..

lies

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 75 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

It is more of a difference now than it will be later. When the two of you are 23 and 26 it will be great. When he is 18 and you are 15 is when it gets weird… the law dogs don’t like it when adults date children. I got caught parking with a girl when I was 18 and she was 17 and the cop could have done some serious things even though she was only like 7 months younger than I was…

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