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Relationship Help, please.

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One of my best friends “K,” has a crush on me. I want to stay as a good friend with her, as we have always known each other, and things would simply feel awkward if we ever progressed into something more than just friends. My other very good friend, who also has a crush on me, whom I like back “S,” is also friend with K. Me and S both know of the other’s crush on them. But, K doesn’t know that S and I like each other. S doesn’t want to hurt K’s feelings, by dating me, and ignoring S’s feelings. Me and S are trying to figure something out, as to what to do with K. Any advice for us?

K also doesn’t know I know that she likes me, as a reference.

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Grim_Hardcastle offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 3 days ago (2 minutes after post)

Drop the drama and go by your heart…

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adamo offline Verified User (2 weeks, 5 days) Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 3 days ago (6 minutes after post)

Call K and say you need some advice. You are starting to have feelings for S and you wonder if K thinks that S likes you. You don’t know what to do. You are glad that K is your good “friend” and you can talk about these things. Your feelings for S are getting very strong and you don’t think you can be just friends anymore . . .

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 81 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 3 days ago (6 minutes after post)

SKS is all I can think of.

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BIG AL 1 offline Verified User (1 month) Shouts: 217 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 3 days ago (16 minutes after post)

Tell K you don’t have the same feelings for her.

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Vaughneddy offline Verified User (1 month, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 3 days ago (16 minutes after post)

someone is going to hurt.. no way around it.

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 81 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 3 days ago (20 minutes after post)

with an SKS?

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camprock offline Verified User (3 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 3 days ago (21 minutes after post)

Follow your heart. Since K does not know that you know that she has feelings for you she’s not gonna feel that bad and be like,”i made a fool of myself.” Dont tell her you know.

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An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 3 days ago (21 minutes after post)

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An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 3 days ago (23 minutes after post)

just go out with s. i mean if you really like s than k shouldnt matter rite. but dont hurt k. tell her how you feel about s because if k liked you than she would back off cuz your happiness should matter more to her. OR you can dsate s and tell her not to tell k and you dont tell k and just keep it a secret. no 1 will hurt unless someone says something.

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Vaughneddy offline Verified User (1 month, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 3 days ago (29 minutes after post)

or ask S and K if they wanna share and do what TV dose and make them compete. WTF have we come to when that **** is acceptable to become entertainment? When I become president im gonna put the ppl who come up with this crap to death without a trial. if 2 wrongs don’t make a right.. they don’t make a wrong! they cancel each other out!!!

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free man offline Verified User (2 weeks, 1 day) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 1 day ago (2 days, 16 hours after post)

I think you will have to tell K abt the truth… as nothing can move ahead.
but you tackle her nicely ,,,dont lose her as a friend… S must also confront K openly… but it must b you who should tell k first…if possible try to get K her any other crush tht she has closer to her…

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