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My girlfriend is always mean to me.

She is so sarcastic, she tells me off, she yells at me for no reason, I am always supposed to be with her and when I can’t be, she gets mad at me. We fight constantly on the phone and sometimes when we’re together. I am loaded down with college work and in school like 14 hours of the day. She calls me all the time, then after I talk a while with her merely answering me, she says, “Anyways” and acts disgusted since I am not motoring on with conversation. Then I talk about stuff that happened during my day and she screams at me because she says she doesn’t care about things that don’t concern her. It’s too boring for her to hear what is happening in my life. Obviously we live separately but she always wants me to come see her late at night when I just need to eat and get to sleep. I still love her and I know she loves me dearly. I have told her what is bothering me and she says she will change her attitude and start respecting me as a person, but she never really does try. I don’t know what to do and I want it to work but I am stressed to the limit. Please, please give me advice– is this my fault? I don’t know what to do, I can’t stand it anymore.
Thanks.

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fractal.scatter offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 281 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (2 minutes after post)

Obviously not meant to be then.

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**OO*i love you*OO** offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (17 minutes after post)

It sounds like she is kinda selfish and does not want what is best for you. sorry she treats you like this. if you are unhappy, you gotta go. weigh it out, youll do what is right.

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1 month ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

Thats who she is. If she hasn’t changed her attitude perhaps its because your personalities clash. She’s always hoping you’ll be different and so she takes it out on you and you in return get frustrated with her attitude and ask her to change her ways. But maybe she is just being herself.

Neither of you are at fault if the problem is compatibility. You just dont jive.

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