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I asked her out almost 3 days ago.

and still no answer yet were both talking to eachother like nothing happened. should i ask her about it or ask her when she will have a answer or should i take this as a “no but we can still be friends” kind of thing. Ahhh!!!

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Morally Ambiguous JD offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 144 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (1 minute after post)

Take it as a no, and ignore her.

See what happens.

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J.N Location unknown offline Verified User (8 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 473 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (1 minute after post)

Maybe give it a little more time or mention it, maybe mention it in a joking way just incase you don’t get the answer you want.

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*dewey* offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (13 minutes after post)

I might ignore her. Because she should’ve given you an answer.

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3 weeks, 4 days ago (23 minutes after post)

I don’t think she’s interested in you as boyfriend material… but maybe she’s worried she’ll hurt your feelings by saying so… just be friends…

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 130 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (29 minutes after post)

When a girl is interested, she usually gives you an answer right away.

Keep on as before and let her bring it up. If you keep on harping at it, you will seem clingy, needy, and pathetic. No girl wants a guy like that.

Just play it like nothing happened.

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cooperchiropra offline Verified User (3 weeks, 4 days) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (30 minutes after post)

Are you kiddin me? First off you definitely are not interested in being friends with her. You already know that but you godda get real clear in your mind on that. Think about it she’s keeping you hanging as you keep calling and talking and spending your time and hoping, hoping, hoping to get a date. Can you see that? Does it sound pathetic. Don’t kid yourself she’s stringing you along as she loves you panting after her. Do you want to be friends? NO so quit wasting your time “being friends” you’re NOT interested.
It sounds like she isn’t interested (would you put someone on hold if you were interested? No. You think she would? No). Put it to her she knows you asked her out, both of you acting like it didn’t happen is stupid. If you want rejection insist on an answer on way or the other (better to know now then after dumping more time into it). But is sounds like you need to say a sarcastic byyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy and move on dude.

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cooperchiropra offline Verified User (3 weeks, 4 days) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (34 minutes after post)

Oh I forgot to mention. You know why a girl want to be “friends?”
Because she isn’t interested in you romantically.
Still want to be friends?

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cooperchiropra offline Verified User (3 weeks, 4 days) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (41 minutes after post)

Hey I know the perfect website for you to check out
http://pickup-girls.com
That will fix you up real good dude.

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maddie.moo offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (2 hours, 40 minutes after post)

I’ve been in this situation before when I was in the girls position, and I freaked out and didn’t answer because I wasn’t ready and I didn’t think I liked him like that. It definitely a low way to react, but hey, I’ve learned and I now know that I have to give a direct answer. Hopefully she learned that too.. if I were you, I’d just back off and give her space. Sorry :(

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