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I was seeing this guy for about 5 months.

when we met he was having relations with someone else but they werent emotionally together only physically. so when he told me about this i was shocked but didnt really care because him and i werent doing anything at this time, i advised to him we could be just friends but if he wanted something more he needed to understand i dont share. so he ended up getting rid of her and then we started becoming more serious. long story short we were together for a while and he would never make me his girlfriend because he thought relationships were stupid but he still acted scared to lose me because i did try to end things a couple times …. he started becoming very busy with school and work and i also did to and that was fine .. he sent me a message, over facebook.. said nice things that he had never said before about how he really cares about me and how hes sorry for being selfish and how i changed his life and his outlook on it and he never thought i would. but he broke things off with me and hasnt spoken to me since this letter.. was he scared or just coming up with an excuse to go **** someone else?

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Abba Zabba offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

The latter is your answer.

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EmilyRI offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

Ahh I’m sorry that happened to you. :( From what I know and have learned about men, the best thing to do is trust your gut instinct about them…a woman’s intuition (while easy to ignore when you like someone) is a very reliable source. How do YOU feel about this situation….really think about it and see what would make the most sense to you.

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