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dont pray to the angles.. pray to God.. just because he doesnt answer doesnt mean hes not listening.. he has a plan for you and he knows what is going to happen to you. tell him to help you through this at give you the strength

well he had no plans for me for the past 20 years..
sorry if im skeptical..

but i will pray though.. maybe he forgot about me cos i never complained..

he didnt forget about you. sometimes you might think its unfair, but he knows what hes doing

Anonymous wrote:
well he had no plans for me for the past 20 years..
sorry if im skeptical..

but i will pray though.. maybe he forgot about me cos i never complained..

it makes me feel bad though
im not religious.. I have never prayed before..
and suddenly just remember “him” when I need help..

thanks
for taking time to read and answer..

ok maybe this is happening so you can pray to him and get to know him.. coz he wants you to know and pray to him.

Anonymous wrote:
it makes me feel bad though
im not religious.. I have never prayed before..
and suddenly just remember “him” when I need help..

Go outside in the morning when the sun is coming up… make sure you get at least 30 minutes of good sunlight. You could have SAD (Seasonal Affective Disorder). In the fall/winter, the lack of natural light can cause depression… check it out

Next, do not turn the television/computer on for a day or two

Do you have a career? Any goals in life? Dreams, hopes, ambitions??? Find some information on it… get excited about it. You’re only 20, you’ve got your whole life ahead of you (I know, I know… I’m only 21, and I roll my eyes when people feed me that one, but really, it’s so true)
Do what you have to do to be happy and secre within yourself first… because you can not be available to other people emotionally ,if internally, you’re in turmoil. You should definetly talk with someone, a counsellor or a psychiatrist. These days, there is no stigma attatched to seeking psychiatric help.

I really hope this helps.

I’m just have the same feeling as you, sometimes my mood fees so bad until i ending up just cry, with no reason. I do pray a lot, sometimes after doing that i felt relieved, but sometimes just not.

A lot of time i thinking to get professional help, but the next day everything that i felt before just gone and i’m being really happy. Do you think my problem is same as you? I’m lonely, too. And kinda shy, i have no gf because i think this problem is really terrible, i don’t want my girl to go out with a person like me who such a crybaby and did cry a lot with no reason

well i do see the sun everyday(run to my early class).. i keep my mind off things by studying and walking around..
Im trying to become an engineer.. hopefully industrial and mechanical (that keeps me busy)
but its not my career or goals that im worried about.

what hit me was that i might quite possibly have no one beside me..
and everything is meaningless without that someone to share your life with it..
i might not even have another 20 years to live.. or even another day..
so till now.. im just a no one..

psychocrybab wrote:
I’m just have the same feeling as you, sometimes my mood fees so bad until i ending up just cry, with no reason. I do pray a lot, sometimes after doing that i felt relieved, but sometimes just not.

A lot of time i thinking to get professional help, but the next day everything that i felt before just gone and i’m being really happy. Do you think my problem is same as you? I’m lonely, too. And kinda shy, i have no gf because i think this problem is really terrible, i don’t want my girl to go out with a person like me who such a crybaby and did cry a lot with no reason

im really sorry if you feel that pain in spurts =(
I suggest you should seek professional help sir..

I really do know how you feel. I know what it’s like to be alone… but really, dwelling upon it and spending your time and energy worrying isn’t beneficial. You should look for creative solutions… like, do you have any hobbies? Just being around others who have similar interests is a good start. It’s just a matter of finding your arena, something you’re comfortable with. Cooking? Music? Chess? Goldfish??? I don’t know! LOL

Oh, and crying really isn’t a BAD thing… it’s kind or like wiping the slate clean… a refresher if you will. Anyway, that’s how I see it.

Anonymous wrote:
well i do see the sun everyday(run to my early class).. i keep my mind off things by studying and walking around..
Im trying to become an engineer.. hopefully industrial and mechanical (that keeps me busy)
but its not my career or goals that im worried about.

what hit me was that i might quite possibly have no one beside me..
and everything is meaningless without that someone to share your life with it..
i might not even have another 20 years to live.. or even another day..
so till now.. im just a no one..

Yeah, i do try to be busy too, to keep my mind off from all that things.

Anyway, what about your problem? Do you feel better now? Because i learnt from myself that when everything hit me all at once (just like you) i started to cry, and after that crying is like drugs to me, i can’t stop it, it’s the only way for me to release all problems inside my mind. Everytime i’m alone i started to make myself cry, i do love it, even when i don’t have any problem, it’s like i’m trying to make my mind feel that i have a problem.

And now, i did cry a lot with no reason, seldom for me to cry with reasons. I hope crying will never be your way to solve any problems, trust me, it’s never solve anything. When i think i don’t want to cry, i punch the wall until my hand gets hurt, sometimes it’s stop me from being a crybaby.

* Go outside in the morning when the sun is coming..
* I really do know how you feel. I know what it’s…

I posted those.. not anonymous

Sorry for the confusion… I think he still has a problem

pshhhh… your talking to random strangers on the internet!!

why do you have low self confindence when it comes to talk to them?? They aren’t gonna bite..

sorry i would say more buts it’s 12:50 am right now very late, big test tomorrow

~CharloTTe

isnt it obvious?
im anonymous.. got a mask on …