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Hi Bubble Gum :) Sorry that your having a hard time with it. So do you have the coldsore or are you just worried you might get them?
i havent actually had a coldsore befoere.. but im worrying sooo much about them that i might get them. because im ALWAYS i mean ALWAYS rubbing/touching them
agaperoot wrote:
Hi Bubble Gum :) Sorry that your having a hard time with it. So do you have the coldsore or are you just worried you might get them?
OK I see where you are coming from now, you are so worried about it that your not able to stop touching your face and checking. What started you to worry so much over this?
ok well actually, it was my mums friend. she was like oh dont go playing kiss chasey *to her young daughter* because you dont know if their mummies have a coldsore.. and i asked what that was. and i wanted to see what it was all about and i started lookiing up HEAPS about it, then im like I DONT WANT ONE and it just got worse and worse all the time.. but i reckon im touhcing my face tooo much now that like my lips look always red and chapped
agaperoot wrote:
OK I see where you are coming from now, you are so worried about it that your not able to stop touching your face and checking. What started you to worry so much over this?
If I’m not mistaken, I’m pretty sure cold sores are common. The internet sometimes over exaggerates things, like if you google certain things they’ll show you what things look like at their worst. Cold sores are easily treated. However, if you have a phobia of them, then I guess it would get the best of you.
OK, so your moms friend said it to you first of all. There are a number of ways to get it kissing someone who has a open wound, or drinking after them, and yea the toothbrush too. You know you are being so aware of it already which is great. Some people do not know and end up with it for life. But that being said it does not at all mean that you will get it, you would have to carelessly kiss someone who has the wound or drink after them, you whatever. I really do understand the fear, you do not want it, but because you are now so smart about it I am 100% certain that you are never going to have to deal with it. You just got its in your mind with the photos and all and now it hard to not think about, am I right?
you are sooooooooo right .. ahh i love people like you! haha.. like i can live a normal life. but i be soooo careful. like i NEVER drink out of peopels bottles or cups anymore and i dont kiss anyone (havent yet!)
agaperoot wrote:
OK, so your moms friend said it to you first of all. There are a number of ways to get it kissing someone who has a open wound, or drinking after them, and yea the toothbrush too. You know you are being so aware of it already which is great. Some people do not know and end up with it for life. But that being said it does not at all mean that you will get it, you would have to carelessly kiss someone who has the wound or drink after them, you whatever. I really do understand the fear, you do not want it, but because you are now so smart about it I am 100% certain that you are never going to have to deal with it. You just got its in your mind with the photos and all and now it hard to not think about, am I right?
Your to cute! You are just like me, I can get worried over stuff and then see it from someone’s point of view so much better. I am so glad that I could help :D You are smart girl, and I see that you have faith in God too, that is so great.
yes i do have a faith :) im 14 years old. but i really gotta stop this fear because its making me upset all the time. like i think im starting to get things on my lip now because of how much i think and touch it
agaperoot wrote:
Your to cute! You are just like me, I can get worried over stuff and then see it from someone’s point of view so much better. I am so glad that I could help :D You are smart girl, and I see that you have faith in God too, that is so great.
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1 month ago (1 hour, 15 minutes after post)
I was worried about that too. I started dating a guy that had cold sores and I was scared that I would get them. We have lived together 2 years, we have shared toothbrushes, kissed, and shared the same drink I still don’t have cold sores. I figured if I do its a risk I would take to share a life with such a great guy. You should try not to worry about it so much.
Yes you have to try to not touch it so much so it can get all better. Why don’t you put some Chapstick on it instead of touching it? Oh and you should look up fear and what God says about that:)
i use chapstick to much. lol. but theres this red thing in the corner of my mouth and like there was no tingling burning or itchying it just felt soooooo dry. anywayss. ive actually prayed to God, and during Religion in class my teacher was like. ok lets let God speak to us. so we did this thing. and i got the message DO NOT WORRY. like underlined.. it was so weird. but i cant get over it
agaperoot wrote:
Yes you have to try to not touch it so much so it can get all better. Why don’t you put some Chapstick on it instead of touching it? Oh and you should look up fear and what God says about that:)
I think that God was trying to reassure you that all things work together for those who love Him…Romans 8:28 That is great, was it the first time it happened to you ?
um yes.. but the fear has gotten worse.. i kinda forgot about coldsores until today when i saw the red on my lip :( like ahh :’(
agaperoot wrote:
I think that God was trying to reassure you that all things work together for those who love Him…Romans 8:28 That is great, was it the first time it happened to you ?
But you know that can not be anything, because first of all you never kissed anyone and never drank after anyone and your not doing anything to expose yourself to it. Fear is not from God BTW:)
my mum is like heapss annoyed with me because im always going. i havve something here and stuff all the time. shes like heaps worried about me… i kno but im not sure if its because my lips are cracked there or its “that”
agaperoot wrote:
But you know that can not be anything, because first of all you never kissed anyone and never drank after anyone and your not doing anything to expose yourself to it. Fear is not from God BTW:)
Sorry I have been writing to another post too and it is long. Well I hope that you don’t continue to worry about this, it is something that has not happened to you so you can relax about,maybe your mom will too ;)
My advice, get some lip gloss (if your a girl) or chapstick and apply it whenever you want, it will stop you from touching your lips all the time because coldsores are usually formed from a general bacteri infection (due to rubbing/cuts and sores) and also stress, if your freaking out about getting one then the likely hood is you will get one..
Besides, a coldsore is nothing at all, i had one once, yeah annoying but it soon clears up and then that’s it over with, haven’t had one since.
i think you should get a coldsore once just to see it’s not that bad really!! and it will stop you worrying trust me
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please dont wish that on me
dggggg wrote:
i think you should get a coldsore once just to see it’s not that bad really!! and it will stop you worrying trust me
BubbleGum wrote:
please dont wish that on me
dggggg wrote:
i think you should get a coldsore once just to see it’s not that bad really!! and it will stop you worrying trust me
They have a point though, once you get one you will see that there is no big deal with a coldsore at all.
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1 month ago (2 hours, 31 minutes after post)
please no dont :’(
~LazyDaze~ wrote:
BubbleGum wrote:
please dont wish that on me
dggggg wrote:
i think you should get a coldsore once just to see it’s not that bad really!! and it will stop you worrying trust me
They have a point though, once you get one you will see that there is no big deal with a coldsore at all.
Anonymous wrote:
please no dont :’(
~LazyDaze~ wrote:
BubbleGum wrote:
please dont wish that on me
dggggg wrote:
i think you should get a coldsore once just to see it’s not that bad really!! and it will stop you worrying trust me
They have a point though, once you get one you will see that there is no big deal with a coldsore at all.
Don’t what? O_O
Don’t agree with someone?
well i gotta tell you now, its been like about 4-5 hours since i first noticed the red thing.. and it hasnt changed..
BubbleGum wrote:
well i gotta tell you now, its been like about 4-5 hours since i first noticed the red thing.. and it hasnt changed..
What you need to do is assess the situation.
If you get a cold sore what is the VERY WORST thing that could happen?
You tell me.
ok i could pass it onto others, i could be like very self contious for like a week. people might not want to come near me. the “thing” will pop up like every so often. id rather just have healthy lips and not known for the girl who has coldsores. what if boys dont date girls with them??
~LazyDaze~ wrote:
BubbleGum wrote:
well i gotta tell you now, its been like about 4-5 hours since i first noticed the red thing.. and it hasnt changed..
What you need to do is assess the situation.
If you get a cold sore what is the VERY WORST thing that could happen?
You tell me.
Ahhh I think I get it now, the whole issue about a coldsore is all down to vanity and what other people will think…
It’s a coldsore, you don’t have 2 heads or a green face it is just a little red cracked thing on the edge of your lip that clears up after a couple of days.
but it would be annoying for ME coz i dont want a big fat thing there…. :(
~LazyDaze~ wrote:
Ahhh I think I get it now, the whole issue about a coldsore is all down to vanity and what other people will think…
It’s a coldsore, you don’t have 2 heads or a green face it is just a little red cracked thing on the edge of your lip that clears up after a couple of days.
well.. ive done some reserch.. and ive found out what this “red” is on the corner of my lip.. it turns out to be dry and cracked because yes they were dry today.. and both sides were hurting not just one
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whoa…is that really what the poster meant?
*Snaps his fingers* I got it!
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BubbleGum wrote:
um yes.. but the fear has gotten worse.. i kinda forgot about coldsores until today when i saw the red on my lip :( like ahh :’(
Yeppers, totally Tweak from SouthPark.
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