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what would be the best thing to do?

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i reaaally like this guy and were good friends. his best friend and i are even closer, but his best friend lies to me about the guy i like liking me. i really wana find out if this guy likes me for reall but im scared of it being akward and he dosent know me that well, not to mention i hardly have anytime to get to know him..not to mention hes way out of my league.

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steff offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 190 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 1 day ago (9 minutes after post)

how does he lie?

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Caleo =3 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 1 day ago (14 minutes after post)

he tells me that the guy i like (his best friend) likes me but hes just playing

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J.N Location unknown offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 377 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 weeks, 1 day ago (24 minutes after post)

Talk to the guy just the 2 of you, if your shy, you don’t need to ask him, just read the way he is with you, you should be able to tell if he likes you. Flirt with him, see what he does.

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steff offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 190 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 1 day ago (28 minutes after post)

How do you KNOW he’s lying?

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Caleo =3 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 1 day ago (45 minutes after post)

cuz i know this guy haha he likes messing with people, there are moments when he can see im taking it seriously and he clears it up that hes just messing with me.

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steff offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 190 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 1 day ago (55 minutes after post)

aww that’s mean.

Well, you don’t have to profess your love…Why don’t you mention it casually like, “do you ever think we would made a good couple?”

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Caleo =3 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 1 day ago (57 minutes after post)

umm..hahaha well the thing is hes prob been hearing i like him or something like that (long story)so im scraed to make a move and have him back off completely.

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ray48teres offline Verified User (1 month, 2 weeks) Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 1 day ago (1 hour after post)

for one no one is out of your league!sooner or later you will know.get a chance talk to him find out things you have in common.their are ways just don’t smother him because you will never know if you do that. hang back watch and listen

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Caleo =3 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 1 day ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

:/ uyy i guess ur right..im just so impatient and im not used to it taking this long lol thanxx

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ray48teres offline Verified User (1 month, 2 weeks) Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 1 day ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

you will make it just remember no one is any better they you.if they are you dont need them anyway.good luck

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J.N Location unknown offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 377 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 weeks, 1 day ago (1 hour, 13 minutes after post)

Just talk to him, you don’t need to be obvious, ask him something about a class you were in, ask him has he seen such a body, chat to him, without anyone else there.

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steff offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 190 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 1 day ago (1 hour, 14 minutes after post)

yeah, i totally understand what you mean. I was always afraid to let a guy know i liked him, because I didn’t want him to stop being friends with me or avoid me because it made him uncomfortable. Maybe just try casual flirting?

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