Need a clever answer for this guy.

bare

Need a clever answer for this guy.

My friend from work is a cool dude. He cool and I like him. But he have this one problem wich anoys me a lot. Have you ever met the sort of fella who has the need of always be reporting the girls he is (and maybe lying about it, who knows) hooking up with? It’s like that, if he’s doing some girl he won’t rest till people know about. So he’s constanlty telling me about it. He never goes into any type of detail, he just says he did it all of sudden. One time said to me “I can get so many women I guess is because I was raised in women crowded enviroment”. So to sum up, he likes to brag about the quantity.

But that ain’t really the problem. My pickle here is that he’s always checking on me. Let’s supose I take my break and I go eat out with some chick. 100% sure he will ask me if I’m doing her or not. Always trying to keep record on my performance on this sector. That happen’s every time and this really bugs me.
So what should I say when he asks “So are you doing her?”. And for god sakes dont tell me to “tell him how you feel” that ain’t the case here.

PS. This is not a thing with me. He doest it to everyone.

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efuasantewacoc 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

unlike some people, I don’t kiss and tell…

what’s it to you?

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bare #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

I don’t want to be aswering this all the time. I do it for me not for others

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c-eek 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

Tell him that the woman is a lady and you would never violate a lady’s trust or privacy. Then, make a rule for yourself to never refer to a lady as a chick, ever again.

bare #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

Im not from USA. Though it wasn’t offensive

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R.A.M 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

c-eek wrote:
Tell him that the woman is a lady and you would never violate a lady’s trust or privacy. Then, make a rule for yourself to never refer to a lady as a chick, ever again.

And sound really pissed and angry at him for degrading her…
LOL!
Hopefully he’ll get the message

bare #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

wow if u got this offended by chick. If I said ***** you would be undergoing on depression right now right? well sorry anyways…

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linuxya 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

He gets a thrill out of embarrassing you. Why give him more attention? The fact that you think he’s so “cool” is weird. He seems pretty creepy and with poor social skills.

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c-eek 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

c-eek wrote:
Tell him that the woman is a lady and you would never violate a lady’s trust or privacy. Then, make a rule for yourself to never refer to a lady as a chick, ever again.

bare wrote:
Im not from USA. Though it wasn’t offensive

So, does what I say make sense to you? I was not offended by the term, but many women are. Just trying to help you out.

bare #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

He does not embarras me. And he is a nice guy ideed. In fact that’s the only thing I don’t like about him. He’s awesome to me in every other way

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bare #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

GOT IT!

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razzberryre 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

Tell him to mind his own business. Or just change the subject.

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Keckers 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

“Babe, I’d rather be doin’ you ;)”

Guaranteed to get him off your *** forever!
:)

Well..unless he’s..all for it and stuff.
Then…yah.

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Belief 2 #
Roslindale, MA, US | 3 weeks ago (41 minutes after post)

Be like, “I’m doing her, her mother, her sister and her third cousin once removed.” When he says you’re lying feign indignation, and tell him that if he doesn’t believe you then to stop ever mentioning or asking you again. And insist that he no longer mentions it when he backs out.

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