I just need to vent i guess.

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I just need to vent i guess.

In October of 2007 i was diagnosed with a very nasty form of breast cancer. Went through the mastectomy and have a very nasty scar thanks to an inept surgeon. In February of 2008, my wonderful and supportive husband was diagnosed with multiple myeloma. He has been in and out of remission ever since and now must have a bone marrow transplant within the next year. Since his diagnosis, i have had my other breast removed and gone through the rounds of radiation.
To make matters worse, we moved across the country so my husband could be closer to his kids and grand children. Took a loss on our first home and now we are stuck in a home in a place we truly don’t like. Trust me, living near the kids isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. We see them when they need a sitter and they show little concern for their fathers/grandfathers health. I’m fed up and feel so hopeless sometimes. I can only hope God has a plan for all this.

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Anonymous #
3 weeks, 2 days ago (21 minutes after post)

I’m so sorry that you are having such a rough time of it at the moment with your own health problems, you husbands and your regret at having moved it obviously is not the best of times for you.

Grandchildren should be a blessing and i am sure yours are… but if you feel that you are not being appreciated maybe it’s about time you spoke up…. Tell your partner’s children that you love spending time with the grandchildren but your health limits what you can do… you find baby sitting a bit too much but would love to maybe have lunch with them one day at the weekend… leaves the door open so they can still see you but stops them putting on you.

candp 114 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 3 weeks, 2 days ago (46 minutes after post)

We are for you, and are listening if you would like to talk more. Carol

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