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Does he like me?

Well. There’s this guy at school who, since I saw him at the concert of my fave band, I’ve kept an eye out for. Spoke to him. I didn’t have a crush, per se, but I liked him. I was interesting in talking to him.

So then I met him properly at this party. We both got drunk, and walked arm-in-arm to an after-do. It was really nice, but he detached himself when we got there? I was pretty flirty at times with this other guy, but out of drunkeness. I think he noticed. We had a great night all in all. I invited him to my party the following night.

Couldn’t believe it when him and his lot showed up. I said I ddin’t think they’d show, and they said of course they would.

Well, I was so wasted I’ve had to piece things together from other people’s accounts. I member that I kept hugging him, but he hugged me back, “looking like a contented chesire cat” as someone put it. My bro told him jokily to stay away from me, but he was all, “woah, okay, I’m sorry”. He spoke to me even when I was half-KOed, apparently. He let me pass out on him.

I just haven’t seen him since, he’s bin away. But he contacted me online four nights in a row, but not tonight. :(

I just feel like he’s too good for me, he’s older, he’s popular and well-rounded. I just don’t believe he could possibly like me.

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Does he like me?

Well. There’s this guy at school who, since I saw him at the concert of my fave band, I’ve kept an eye out for. Spoke to him. I didn’t have a crush, per se, but I liked him. I was interesting in talking to him.

So then I met him properly at this party. We both got drunk, and walked arm-in-arm to an after-do. It was really nice, but he detached himself when we got there? I was pretty flirty at times with this other guy, but out of drunkeness. I think he noticed. We had a great night all in all. I invited him to my party the following night.

Couldn’t believe it when him and his lot showed up. I said I ddin’t think they’d show, and they said of course they would.

Well, I was so wasted I’ve had to piece things together from other people’s accounts. I member that I kept hugging him, but he hugged me back, “looking like a contented chesire cat” as someone put it. My bro told him jokily to stay away from me, but he was all, “woah, okay, I’m sorry”. He spoke to me even when I was half-KOed, apparently. He let me pass out on him.

I just haven’t seen him since, he’s bin away. But he contacted me online four nights in a row.

I just feel like he’s too good for me, he’s older, he’s popular and well-rounded. I just don’t believe he could possibly like me.

Anonymous #
3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

Perhaps he was busy tonight, and unable to contact you?

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Anonymous #
3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

Well, he was online.

But, I mean…what if he’s looking at me like some little stalker?

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kittytat offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

i’ve recently found myself madly in love with a boy i thought would never give me a second look, and the feelings are returned…dont take one night of not hearing from him so harsly silly, just take things easy, if the subject comes up, sure let him know your feelings for him but you cant act all gaga all the time, well at least from my experience, if you dont know him too well it could possibly push him away, and you should always be looking out for your own best interests ;] like i said try not to let it bother you, you never know why he hasnt contacted you, perhaps he is just busy and thinking about you the whole time :] i dont know the kid but a lot of guys are jerks and wouldnt go out of their way to talk to you unless they were genuine but then again some are just looking for a piece of …meat. for lack of a better word… as i said before, just take it easy, and you will know soon enough

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3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

Thank you. I’m just gutted coz he wanted me to go to this thing tonight…but it was kinda his year only type thing…

He is a genuinely good guy. Everybody knows it. It’s written all over his face.

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kittytat offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

well have you tried getting ahold of him at all? i’m not sure how youre talking but if it were me i would leave some sort of message saying something like ‘hey, just wondering if you still wanted me to join you tonight, just trying to get my plans set!’ so you dont seem overbearing, just curious, it also gives an air of well having other things to do lol

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An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

I don’t think I can do that. But I’ll see him tommorrow at this big thing. I dunno how to act though.

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