i would say that since my first boyfriend whom asked me to be - Help.com

Nahh, you don’t look bad, babe. But you definatelydefinatelydefinately need to find a way to be happy with or without a guy…within yourself.

You don’t come across to me as bad… but you do come across as needy… you need to find a way to feel happy in yourself without a guy being responsible for your happiness.

Noooooo! THAT’S what you need to work on, then! Be single until you know yourself, appreciate your wonderful self, and can enjoy your own company.

Because, after all, my lovely, how can you ever let someone else love you, if you can’t love you?

i dont think this is bad in comparison to some girls. my best friend has had about 8 boyfriends in the past MONTH, and im not exxagerating. so THIS doesnt look bad, but you need to be careful you dont turn into someone who dates a guy for literally two days. some people have trouble being alone, but the next time you’re single, instead of getting a new boyfriend, maybe you should hang out with your other single friends, or just any friends at all. i know this sounds stupid and cheesy, but it works :)

The problem with focusing all the attention on a guy is that once the novelty has worn off for them they start to take a closer look at you…. and is sounds like they are picking up on your own issuses…. not very attractive. You have to be happy in yourself… you can’t make someone else happy if you aren’t yourself.

So let him hint and keep ignoring the hints… this is about you finding happiness within yourself and even now you are still basing being happy on a guy…. a guy that you actually don’t want to be with at the moment but you are still thinking that relationship might be better than having to focus on yourself…. Bad idea.

kittytat19 wrote:
well see…my only problem being i have like 4 best friends 2 female 2 male, one of each gender have significant others and the male left is like well…idk i could marry him but at the same time i could never date him in a million years but when we hang out when i am single he hints over and over that we should be together…. i would like to but at the same time if we were infact to date i would not be ready to be with him until he matured a lot, he has had like one girlfriend…its hard lol im a bit of an introvert that would be why i tend to like to make my entiire life about school, work, and le boyfriend.. heh

yea, well, its kinda understandeable. i wouldnt want to date someone who’s immature, either. well, it doesnt matter if your friends have boyfriends, you can still go to the movies or to the mall with them…i mean, thats what friends are for, right? and school and work are important, much as it kills me to say it. so stay focused on that too. but find some time for yourself! you might enjoy it.

kittytat19 wrote:
ahh youre so right! i have problems.. lol i think this may be the result of some sort of a ‘daddy’s girl’ complex

you dont have problems…well, no more than the rest of us :)