can any1 help me I want to put an end to my miserable pathetic - Help.com

oh .tell me how i can help you :) ok ?

What is so bad for you that you want to die?

u’re a coward if u wanna end ur life!!!! the right decision is to accept the chalenges that life gives us, and search for the positive things in life !!!! buy a dog, he will love you unconditionally! he will satisfy ur needs for a long period of time !!!

u don’t get it for me it’s over my life is hell I can’t take it any more all I wanted is to feel safe , to live in peace but nothin’ works I tried really hard if I ended my life I’ll finaly be in peace

garomomdjian wrote:
u’re a coward if u wanna end ur life!!!! the right decision is to accept the chalenges that life gives us, and search for the positive things in life !!!! buy a dog, he will love you unconditionally! he will satisfy ur needs for a long period of time !!!

Oh shut it, dummy.
When a persons near hysterical they don`t want to hear self-righteous bs.
They want to vent their problems.

Do you know, if any one of us helped you, we would be arrested for helping to murder you.
That is something I am not prepaired to do.

Now if you want to talk to one or all of the people above about it, I am sure they will listen and try to help you through this.

I must leave in a few mins, so I am not able to do it myself at this time.

Exactly the same as i was feeling the other month!
Tbh i just gritted my teeth and it DID get better i know people say it all the time, and when they said it to me i got so angry because i thought it would NEVER get better but it really does all you need is somebody to talk to

no I can’t get any help If I don’t end my life it’ll just get worst u don’t get I can’t ask for help please

do you have msn? or anything where it’s easier to chat?

what probs do u have exactly??
my life neither is a peace of cake!

Wanna tell us what`s up?

I once read something like “1 in 10 people contemplates suicide at some point in their life”. So first of all, you are definitely not alone.

Secondly, suicide isn’t the right option. If you really feel this way, you should call a suicide helpline and talk to someone directly, over the phone, and get some good advice. They are qualified to help you, and I am sure they’ll have good advice or know where you can go for help.

garomomdjian wrote:
what probs do u have exactly??
my life neither is a peace of cake!

Stop generalizing and give us some specifics. Many of the problems in life are a matter of divide and conquer - you have to start somewhere.

I got beatin’ every day I’m not aloud to leave home they’re turnin my life to hell and I can’t stop them

How old are you? Who are ‘They?’ - your parents? Aunts? Uncels? Foster?

my parents used to beat me all the time, my dad even broke my nose one time, another time he gave me a black eye !!!!!

I’m 19 my parents r the ones who beats me up they keep me locked up I didn’t leave the house for almost a year now and it’s gettin worst

It’s time to go - you’re old enough to leave. If you hang around the misery, it’ll be to your own inviting. I’m sorry. Do you know of anyone - any friends that will be willing to let you stay with them?

the reason i wrote above, plus other reason , were why i left to russia! (got a sholarship) but the prob is the money, this is not europe or USA , they only give me like 30$ a month wich don’t buy u anything!!!!
it worked out for me in a way, maybe it will for you?!
i beared my parents 19 years! and now i’m totally free of them!

I don’t care what country you live in - unless you’re in jail, no person can “make” you stay. Leave - get out. Find a place, find a job, find a home - find people with an apartment share rent.

Pack your things and stand ready to go, as soon as the door opens - GO! RUN!

garomomdjian wrote:
my parents used to beat me all the time, my dad even broke my nose one time, another time he gave me a black eye !!!!!

What is this?
Why are you competing for the title of the worlds most miserable joe?
Where’s the use in that?

u all r very lucky I’m not from US and from where I come from I cant leave no matter how old Iam and if i do my parents have the right to kill me , I do n’t care about the money I would rather live in the street than bein in hell with them the problem is that I;m not able to leave

Anonymous wrote:
u all r very lucky I’m not from US and from where I come from I cant leave no matter how old Iam and if i do my parents have the right to kill me , I do n’t care about the money I would rather live in the street than bein in hell with them the problem is that I;m not able to leave

Alright.
Where are you exactly?
And what drives them to hit you?

i’m not competing my friend, i’m just letting him know that he’s not alone, and that finally i solved my probs!!!!!

What country do you live in?

well I’m from iraq and they beat me because I’m a girl and my parents hate the fact that they have me they belive Iam a shame to the family

What do they accuse you of?

Anonymous wrote:
well I’m from iraq and they beat me because I’m a girl and my parents hate the fact that they have me they belive Iam a shame to the family

Gehh…so they hit you..just for the sake of hitting you?

i understand you! i know it’s really hard for a girl specially in an islamic world!!
do you know that you can come to russia??? you can also get a scholarship and plus your government will ssend you every month 450$ !!! i know that cause i’m the president of arabic students in my university
ma tkhafe! Alla bise3id el kell !

that i brought shame to my family since the day i was born because i’m a girl

garomomdjian wrote:
i understand you! i know it’s really hard for a girl specially in an islamic world!!
do you know that you can come to russia??? you can also get a scholarship and plus your government will ssend you every month 450$ !!! i know that cause i’m the president of arabic students in my university
ma tkhafe! Alla bise3id el kell !

Hahaha.
Bein libnenee tlo3it.
You’re suggesting that she goes against her parents will and escapes.
To clarify if you do do that , they would disown you and you’d probably never be able to see them again.
Once again..I still can’t belive they hit for being a girl.
Shoo hal takhaloff….

So - you were not born a boy. Forget packing - RUN! Find a way! And soon! Tonight! You must save your life - not take it. If you must die - die in the attempt to live!

garomomdjian wrote:
i understand you! i know it’s really hard for a girl specially in an islamic world!!
do you know that you can come to russia??? you can also get a scholarship and plus your government will ssend you every month 450$ !!! i know that cause i’m the president of arabic students in my university
ma tkhafe! Alla bise3id el kell !

thanks a lot ( shokran ) but how I’m spouse to leave I just can’t last month I was just takin the trash out for that my father brund my whole budy with a hot kinfe nothing ealse gonna work I have to put an end to it or they will

Anonymous wrote:

garomomdjian wrote:
i understand you! i know it’s really hard for a girl specially in an islamic world!!
do you know that you can come to russia??? you can also get a scholarship and plus your government will ssend you every month 450$ !!! i know that cause i’m the president of arabic students in my university
ma tkhafe! Alla bise3id el kell !

thanks a lot ( shokran ) but how I’m spouse to leave I just can’t last month I was just takin the trash out for that my father brund my whole budy with a hot kinfe nothing ealse gonna work I have to put an end to it or they will

Are you living in 3iraq?

allan_wilco wrote:
So - you were not born a boy. Forget packing - RUN! Find a way! And soon! Tonight! You must save your life - not take it. If you must die - die in the attempt to live!

I would be kidnapped and raped for sure the moment i leave u don’t know whats it like in iraq

Do you have any other family you can turn to?

Keckers wrote:
Do you have any other family you can turn to?

no they all the same

I don’t know what God you believe in, but the God I understand has a plan for you that is at hand. I know that love seems like a meaningless word of hope, but I would appease your father continously until hope arrives in your life where you may be saved from the current situation you are temporarily in.
Choose life, and the misery, for greater is your reward when God brings you up!

please add me to your friends list, i know good Iraqi people , maybe they can help!
w 2oulile essmik 3mele ma3rouf, 7a sallilik ana el yowm.

allan_wilco wrote:
I don’t know what God you believe in, but the God I understand has a plan for you that is at hand. I know that love seems like a meaningless word of hope, but I would appease your father continously until hope arrives in your life where you may be saved from the current situation you are temporarily in.
Choose life, and the misery, for greater is your reward when God brings you up!

God is one, for all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
she being muslim doesn’t mean she has another God!!! go read books !!!!!

garomomdjian wrote:

allan_wilco wrote:
I don’t know what God you believe in, but the God I understand has a plan for you that is at hand. I know that love seems like a meaningless word of hope, but I would appease your father continously until hope arrives in your life where you may be saved from the current situation you are temporarily in.
Choose life, and the misery, for greater is your reward when God brings you up!

God is one, for all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
she being muslim doesn’t mean she has another God!!! go read books !!!!!

Roo2 roo2 ya faroo2.

Anonymous wrote:

allan_wilco wrote:
So - you were not born a boy. Forget packing - RUN! Find a way! And soon! Tonight! You must save your life - not take it. If you must die - die in the attempt to live!

I would be kidnapped and raped for sure the moment i leave u don’t know whats it like in iraq

i tell you again: go read books and know how is it like to live in an islamic world!

garomomdjian wrote:

allan_wilco wrote:
I don’t know what God you believe in, but the God I understand has a plan for you that is at hand. I know that love seems like a meaningless word of hope, but I would appease your father continously until hope arrives in your life where you may be saved from the current situation you are temporarily in.
Choose life, and the misery, for greater is your reward when God brings you up!

God is one, for all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
she being muslim doesn’t mean she has another God!!! go read books !!!!!

If this is so, then it is so. I am not familiar to this and do not mean or intend to offend - so do not shout.

garomomdjian wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

allan_wilco wrote:
So - you were not born a boy. Forget packing - RUN! Find a way! And soon! Tonight! You must save your life - not take it. If you must die - die in the attempt to live!

I would be kidnapped and raped for sure the moment i leave u don’t know whats it like in iraq

i tell you again: go read books and know how is it like to live in an islamic world!

Of for gods sake.
Iraq is a country left in a shambles from a stupid pointless war.
It’s lacking all forms of justice and order for the time being because it been bloody obliterated.
Iraq doesn’t represent the bloomin’ Muslim world.
Would you please for just one minute stop being such a headstrong loose cannon.

allan_wilco wrote:

garomomdjian wrote:

allan_wilco wrote:
I don’t know what God you believe in, but the God I understand has a plan for you that is at hand. I know that love seems like a meaningless word of hope, but I would appease your father continously until hope arrives in your life where you may be saved from the current situation you are temporarily in.
Choose life, and the misery, for greater is your reward when God brings you up!

God is one, for all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
she being muslim doesn’t mean she has another God!!! go read books !!!!!

If this is so, then it is so. I am not familiar to this and do not mean or intend to offend - so do not shout.

no prob

thank u all for your time but u just can’t help me I don’t even worth it if i did God would’ve helped me a long time ago thanks again

Anonymous wrote:

Keckers wrote:
Do you have any other family you can turn to?

no they all the same

Hey anon.
I apologize for asking this but this is basically a common way people get out of such positions or dilemmas.
But do you happen to have any prospective suitors.
It’s a sad thing that you have to marry your way out of pain caused by your own flesh and blood but basically for the time being it’s the only plausible solution i can come up with.

Keckers wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Keckers wrote:
Do you have any other family you can turn to?

no they all the same

Hey anon.
I apologize for asking this but this is basically a common way people get out of such positions or dilemmas.
But do you happen to have any prospective suitors.
It’s a sad thing that you have to marry your way out of pain caused by your own flesh and blood but basically for the time being it’s the only plausible solution i can come up with.

i agree

if you need to talk to someone, call me, this is cell N. +7 9 1 8 5 6 4 5 5 3 0
but only if this won’t get you into trouble!!! be really carefull! please !

i’m not trying to convince you into something you might not want to do, bass na7na el Lebanese men salle lal 2iddiss mar Charbel, eza badddik 3mele search 3al google, houwwe akid bise3dik!!!!! ma fi atyab men 2albo!

Anonymous wrote:
that i brought shame to my family since the day i was born because i’m a girl

I don’t believe you.

Florie wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
that i brought shame to my family since the day i was born because i’m a girl

I don’t believe you.

I would. They kill baby girls in China. Believe that?

Anonymous wrote:
thank u all for your time but u just can’t help me I don’t even worth it if i did God would’ve helped me a long time ago thanks again

Sorry I’m late.

I wish you strength:) Can you speak to your mom?