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Being Used?

Or she is Confused?

A friend of mine who I never really knew very well, posted a general note for help with Technology, i responded and since then we have been seeing alot more of each other.

The girl is about my age, and a very smiley and huggy sort of person who will hug anyone. She has at least 4 other guys apart from me that are interested in dating her at the moment.

I have had a few bad experiences with women in the past, as so decided to try and take this one slow. We spent more time together and it would get to the point where we would stay up talking until about 2am some nights. I’ve taken her out for dinner one night as well.

just over a month ago I took her to the Lake on campus, and on a bridge with a sunset behind us, asked her out while giving her a dozen origami flowers I had made. I got the ” I’m not ready for a relationship, but I like you response”.

Since then we still saw a lot of each other. One night she came over to make chocolate fudge, and while we were waiting for it to set, we put some TV on in my room, after a little while though it ended up that we were intimately hugging in bed, and ended up not paying much attention to the TV.

Since then i took her out to london for her birthday and treated her to a nice restaurant. She is living in a house with 4 other people one of them being her EX boyfriend, who she says she wants to get over, but still loves. She has this thing about her ex seeing a particular girl that likes to flirt with him, she seems to be saying, its fine for me to go out on dates with you, but its not ok for a girl to be flirting with my ex.

Some of the time when i’m talking to her it ends up with her talking about how one of the other guys that wants to date her is annoying her, and it makes me wonder if she is saying these things about me to other guys as well.

Sometimes i do feel like she is using me, weather intentionally or unintentionally. At the start of writing this I felt partially like I should take a step back and just be friends, but having written this down it seems to be abit clearer in my head.

What should I do, is there anyway i can help her get over her Ex, i really have fallen hard for this girl.

Or is she just using me, and should i jsut stick to being friends?

Or am i being an idiot?

Thanks

Moonlight

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