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My ex girlfriend is confusing me…

We work together and today she did something a little odd. She sent me a text message today because she saw me with my new girlfriend. She stopped by to take me out to lunch.Now my ex is the one that ended things with me, and poorly I might add. She said in her text message that she saw me with my girl and said not to text her anymore… The odd thing is I don’t text her. She texted me before in the past but I did not respond. She said she wasn’t mad but she said I hope that you don’t mind when I bring my boyfriend around. It was a semi long text that rambled and did not make sense. I saw her walk by later and she looked flustered. What is this all about? Is she jealous? it just seems strange that she had to tell me that she saw me etc. and in a semi angry but pretending not to be manner. Shouldn’t she just be happy for me? I don’t understand what she’s trying to tell me. I almost get the feeling she implied that I was the one being silly… I just don’t get it. Anyway I haven’t responded and I won’t I’m just worried if I don’t say something she might just get more frustrated. Any insight people?

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 126 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

Don’t text her anymore. She’s just jealous of you finding happiness without her. Don’t fret. Ignore her.

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3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

littlenick wrote:
Don’t text her anymore. She’s just jealous of you finding happiness without her. Don’t fret. Ignore her.

that’s really all the advice you need..

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fractal.scatter offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 284 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

Yeah that’s all you need? She’s your ex for a reason. Why are you even that bothered? Ignore her, get on with your life (which you sound like you have been doing) and then it’s up to her if she wants to move on or not.

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Anonymous #
3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

Cool that’s what I thought, and what I did… My worry is that will make her even more crazy. Should I just forget about that until it happens?

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 126 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

Just ignore the b**tch! Don’t pay her no f**king mind!!! She does not deserve one ounce of your attention!!!!

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BIG AL 1 offline Verified User (1 month, 1 week) Shouts: 427 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

Just make sure that you do not text her. Ignore her. Unless spoken to do not speak to her. She’s the one that ended the relationship. Who cares about her boyfriend - (right?), and who cares of her new-found jealousey.
Keep strong with your new girl - that’s the focus.

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agaperoot offline Verified User (2 months, 3 weeks) Shouts: 336 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

Jealous-Pathetic-Wasting your time.

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Anonymous #
3 weeks ago (48 minutes after post)

Wow! I guess she’s jealous ;) I won’t give her a 2nd thought. Thanks everyone… Hate to say it but it kind of feels good.

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