Love help: My friend (who i’m in love with) slept with her on/off horrible boyfriend who i really hate as he hurts her repeatedly.. - Help.com



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My friend (who i’m in love with) slept with her on/off horrible boyfriend who i really hate as he hurts her repeatedly..

I don’t want to lose her but it just really digs at me inside and i can’t stand it….

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delilah offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

I think you should tell her how you feel.

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BIG AL 1 offline Verified User (1 month) Shouts: 217 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

delilah wrote:
I think you should tell her how you feel.

Exactly. (Sigh) But I fear that this is a ‘nice guy’/'bad boy’ story, already and (as a ‘nice guy’, I already know how that ends up).

- Let her know how you feel about her.

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 81 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

So are you sleeping with her? Why do you have such a vested interest?

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Dracut, MA, US | 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 48 minutes after post)

ouch! well if this guy is an on/off horrible boyfriend who hurts her over and over I can’t see how they are going to last. Unfortunately a lot of girls have a hard time recognizing a bad relationship when they are in one and getting out of it can be difficult. Just comfort her when she needs it, don’t bad mouth the guy, hint to her how you feel, show her how the grass is greener on your side, be yourself, be patient, and hopefully one day she’ll wake up and see him for what he really is. When that day comes step up to the plate you’ll probably stand a good chance. If she turns you down forget her.. she’ll get what she deserves in her next bad relationship :)

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 weeks ago (4 hours, 15 minutes after post)

tell her how you feel, but ultimately its her life, if she wants to sleep with losers then its her choice.

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