My “friends” are acting strange…

cRazd&cOnfused

My “friends” are acting strange…

My friends carly, rose, and claire are some of my best buds. They are more of a threesome, i feel like the 4th wheel… but i hang out with them at recess and have sleepovers at my house and all is well.
a few days ago, things started to get strange. They won’t talk to me or i feel like they try to avoid me. I always feel like they try to take advantage of me just because i they are popular and i am, well…. popular, but still… anyway i asked carly if she was going to the 5th quarter party and she didn’t even look at me when she said ” Uh, I don’t know” and rushed away with her car rider line after school.
They form little exclusive powwows and if anyone comes 2 feet into it… “UH.. seriously go away”.
They’re the only friends i’ve got that understand me, and that i can almost any secret 2. lately i feel cut off from them, but it happens a lot…
HELP!

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Anonymous #
2 weeks, 6 days ago (5 minutes after post)

Deep down you know they’re not your friends. They’re the only ones you’ve known for a while and it’s harder for you to start other friendships, so you continue to pretend you have this friendship and you should work on it.
Don’t. Just ignore them as much as they’re ignoring you. If they need something make excuses and say you can’t help them. Odds are they probably won’t try and make up with you. so just find another group or a friend and start over.

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An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 6 days ago (10 minutes after post)

They’re weeding you out of the bunch. It hurts to see this. Your former friends are about to become more and more shallow as time carries on. It’s plenty okay to make new ones. Friends are Fiends with a R. . . Choose your Fiends wisely.

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An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 6 days ago (11 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Deep down you know they’re not your friends. They’re the only ones you’ve known for a while and it’s harder for you to start other friendships, so you continue to pretend you have this friendship and you should work on it.
Don’t. Just ignore them as much as they’re ignoring you. If they need something make excuses and say you can’t help them. Odds are they probably won’t try and make up with you. so just find another group or a friend and start over.

thats the problem. I have no other people that understand me and just to befriend in general. i want to so badly… but i find myself always turning back to them because they are the key to being happy, and if i ignore them, they will just bug and say “Whats wrong?” UGH!

BIG AL 1 416 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 6 days ago (18 minutes after post)

Why so desperate? They aren’t the key to anything - understand? Happiness comes from inside you. Not who you would like to surround yourself with. And if they are the ones that were making you happy, they’re not doing that anymore - they’re making you sad and upset. When they say “What’s wrong?” dosen’t it prove their insensitivity?

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An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 6 days ago (36 minutes after post)

thanks!

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An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 2 days ago (4 days, 15 hours after post)

im in a threeesome 2 thats hapened 2 me but u should stand up 4 urself and tell them why arent you my friend??? - and be brave and dont take blank or rude answers.
i think u should - can email me at i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>

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