I told her “I love you, but I’m not IN love with - Help.com

Is she in love with you?

Yah. I personally think you are a lunatic. Well, make it clear. Black or white. No gray area please.

I don’t think so. the only time she said “i love you” she was drunk.

What was her reaction when you told her you are not in love with her?

I believe she understood. I told her i’d do anything for her, but breaking up was better for the both of us…..man, i can’t type tonite

Then don’t send her flowers. What you feel is a compassionate feeling for a friend.

I only told my last boyfriend I loved him when I was drunk. And I meant it. I was just always way to nervous otherwise. And why not just 12 yellow roses? yellow roses are a sign of friendship

mz.mo wrote:
I only told my last boyfriend I loved him when I was drunk. And I meant it. I was just always way to nervous otherwise. And why not just 12 yellow roses? yellow roses are a sign of friendship

I could do that, I just just thought six red & six black would be more dramatic or perhaps symbolic.

pg wrote:

mz.mo wrote:
I only told my last boyfriend I loved him when I was drunk. And I meant it. I was just always way to nervous otherwise. And why not just 12 yellow roses? yellow roses are a sign of friendship

I could do that, I just just thought six red & six black would be more dramatic or perhaps symbolic.

No it would be more of a dickwad move. But if your going for that by all means

um…no the hell you shouldnt.
talk about mixed messages O_o