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Okay what should I do?

I always wory about my BF because he does drugs and alot of stuff.I love him but I can’t live with him or without him.I’m always scared he’s cheating on me because he’s 15 and he goes to A school. What should I do?

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 weeks, 4 days ago (5 minutes after post)

You shouldn’t be with someone who does drugs because sooner or later they are going to tempt you to do them yourself and you–just because think he will love you more and accept you more–will fall into that trap and they you will also be a drug addict.

Dump him.

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 70 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 4 days ago (7 minutes after post)

Learn to trust him or get a new boyfriend that actually goes to your school so you can keep an eye on his sorry little tail. Do you have a reason not to trust your boyfriend? Does he lie about other things?

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2 weeks, 4 days ago (12 minutes after post)

He does not lie to me. And I trust him its just that I NEVER get to see him. I miss him sooo much.

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 70 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 4 days ago (30 minutes after post)

Yeah well about the drug thing a lot of people smoke pot in high school and college and then quit when they grow up. Alcohol can be way worse than most other drugs and you never know who is going to become an alcoholic when they turn 21. You two should join some after school activity together so that you can spend more time with him. YMCA? Take karate lessons or something like that.

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xthejokkerx offline Verified User (2 weeks, 4 days) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 4 days ago (32 minutes after post)

No he can’t because he is on probation.

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 70 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 4 days ago (40 minutes after post)

Okay now he’s on probation too? I’m joining the dump him side with littlenick.

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Abba Zabba offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 4 days ago (41 minutes after post)

Probation for what exactly?

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xthejokkerx offline Verified User (2 weeks, 4 days) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 4 days ago (54 minutes after post)

No I’m not going to dump him.
I love him to much to let him go.
For nearly killing his sister and running away from home.
Then once he gets out of probation hes going back because hes going to beat up his EX.
(She hit him first but then he had to go to probation so yeah)
And he even said to my friend to tell me that he want to take me to his creek behind his woods.
I would Like that.
=]

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Abba Zabba offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 4 days ago (55 minutes after post)

Well, good luck with that… 0_o

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 weeks, 4 days ago (1 hour, 27 minutes after post)

xthejokkerx wrote:
No I’m not going to dump him.
I love him to much to let him go.
For nearly killing his sister and running away from home.
Then once he gets out of probation hes going back because hes going to beat up his EX.
(She hit him first but then he had to go to probation so yeah)
And he even said to my friend to tell me that he want to take me to his creek behind his woods.
I would Like that.
=]

Sounds like an exemplary guy all girls want to get involved with!

Good luck with that!!!

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